My "Best friend"

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Cieara Livingston

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Apr 25, 2013, 2:43:14 PM4/25/13
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Dear Mr. Swag,
       So here's my problem, i like this guy but as soon as i told my friend she gave me the weirdest i didn't understand  why...until we passed him in the hall and she stated to blush. When she started to blush i was wondering if she liked him to. When we got to class i sat beside her and asked her if she liked him too. She gave me this look and then put her head down and said "yes." I was SHOCKED! like she was my supposed to be my best friend and she decided to go and like the same guy as i did and didn't tell me! I honestly didn't know what to say and  then after she looked up at me she told me that she has only liked him for a few weeks, and she said that she wasn't going to tell me because she didn't want me to bed mad at her. But it turns out that i wouldn't even be mad if she would have told me from the start. I don't know if I should forgive her or not, please help!

Sincerely 
Don't Know If She's My Best Friend 

Rimsha Faisal

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Apr 25, 2013, 4:15:26 PM4/25/13
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Dear Don't Know If She's My Best Friend

I personally think that you should forgive her because even though she likes the same guy as you, she's not gonna do anything about it because you like him. She can't help who she likes but she is respecting you by not doing anything about it. Maybe she was just scared to tell you how she felt about him, but you shouldn't hold that against her. Do the right thing and forgive her.

Signed Mr.Swag

Lena Hafez

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Apr 25, 2013, 5:31:34 PM4/25/13
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I personally think you should forgive her because its hard for someone to get over the person they like. And if he liked you back she would probably respect that the fact that you guys are going out. So you should respect the fact that she likes him.  Iv'e been through that before with me and my best friend. I liked a guy and she liked him too and he ended up liking me, and my friend got over him in the next few days. 

Uzma Bakhtair

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Apr 25, 2013, 10:23:29 PM4/25/13
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Dear Don't Know If She's My Best Friend

i think you should forgive her because if she is your true best friend then you should because guys don't matter it is friends that matter because sooooo many guys could come in your life and go of it but the really thing that matter is friends.Why because friends like these come only once 

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Keith Staeger

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Apr 26, 2013, 9:28:21 AM4/26/13
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Well, i think you should forgive her, also you should ask her if she only liked him because you do. if you forgive her you guys can get on with your lives but you can also like the same guy, as long as its not interfering with your friendship. 


On Thursday, April 25, 2013 2:43:14 PM UTC-4, Cieara Livingston wrote:

Wafa Baqri

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Apr 26, 2013, 9:35:10 AM4/26/13
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Dear Don't Know If She's My Best Friend,
 
You should forgive her. You shouldn't be mad at her because she likes the same guy as you, it hard to can't control your feelings towards someone at times. She probably didnt tell you because she was scared of how you might react. Don't let something as simple as this get between you guys, forgive her and move on.
 
Signed, Mr. Swag

Lynda Chong

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Apr 26, 2013, 8:38:26 PM4/26/13
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Dear Don't Know If She's My Best Friend,
People can't control who they fall in love with, it sort of just happens. So, you can't blame her for liking the same boy as you. You're best friends, so why let one guy ruin that? Did you ever think, "Maybe she didn't tell me because she knew I liked him and didn't want to hurt my feelings"? That's always a possibility. You should talk to her about it, maybe you can even fan-girl over him together... if you're about that life. Honestly, just forgive her. It's not like she likes your boyfriend, he's just the boy you like, so she isn't really doing anything wrong. You're young, you'll both find that special someone who isn't the same person, so I wouldn't worry to much about this one guy.

Sincerely, Mr. Swag. 

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Ayesha Afzal

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Apr 29, 2013, 10:17:14 PM4/29/13
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Dear Don't know if she's my best friend,

Best friends will stay best friends depending on behaviour. People just randomly fall in love, without they, themselves not noticing they did. You guys could make a pact on whoever wins his heart first, gets him, but shouldn't hold grudges against each other. You could also forget about him or explain to your friend, how much you like him. If she's your true friend, she should understand and at least figure something out with you. Like I said, make a deal or something.

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Mr. Swag

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Sonya Dano

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Apr 30, 2013, 9:44:39 AM4/30/13
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Dear don't Know If She's My Best Friend, 
 
You can't get mad at her for liking somone it could happen to anyone. dont let something small like this ruine your friendship.if it was the other way around you would want her to forgive you.
 
Signed Mr.Swag

Eeti Mehta

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Apr 30, 2013, 4:15:47 PM4/30/13
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Dear Don't Know If She's My Best Friend,
I think you should forgive her because it isn't her fault that
she likes the same guy as you, she can't control her feelings. She
might just have been scared to tell you before but at least she didn't
lie to you when you asked her. That's how you know she is your real
friend. If she didn't care about you, she could have just lied but she
didn't. You can also just wait and see if she asks this guy out. If
she does it means she's not your friend. If she doesn't, it means she
is. Both of you will get over this guy soon but you will miss your
friend. Guys will come and go but real friends only come around once.
So you should be glad you have a best friend and forget about this.
Just start fresh.
Signed Mr. Swag
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