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Bishoy Mikhail

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Apr 26, 2013, 11:13:53 AM4/26/13
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Dear Mr.Swag
 
I have a friend that has separated parents that fight all the time and because of that he is depressed and is failing school and has mentioned suicidal a couple of times.
I want to help him because he is one of my closest friends and I am afraid that his parents fighting is going to ruin his life.
He is a straight A student and now his grades are down to a C and constantly going down. I also saw a few cutting marks on his arm near the viens which looked like he is trying to suicide. I tried talking to him and telling him that suicidal is not the answer but he would just laugh at me and tell me that there is no point in living and then he would walk away. Please help before you read that a 14 year old boy has committed suicide on the news.
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Gregor Orel

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Apr 26, 2013, 11:27:54 AM4/26/13
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Dear Cookie Face,

You need to help him before anything even worse happens. If his parents are arguing and fighting you should tell his parents about it. They will probably understand and stop the fighting which will help your friend. Don't worry if you are afraid to tell them. You can call the kid's help phone instead, they would take care of the situation. The phone number is 1-800-668-6868. If this doesn't help, you can do one more thing. You could mention to him about family therapy. Family Therapy will help them resolve their issues from one another. Also talk to your friend about his emotions and what he thinks about all this fighting so he can let his issues and feelings out. He'll most likely talk about it to his best friend. Divorce is tough on people and it's taking a toll on him. That's all you need to know to help him, good luck.

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dymar

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Apr 26, 2013, 11:37:37 AM4/26/13
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Dear Cookie Face,

I have been in this kind of situation before. Do not get involved try to hope for the best, your parents might be mad at each other but they don't want you to get involved and get hurt. Try to talk to them and maybe they will stop but the thing is they love you. If you cant talk to them maybe you can talk to kids help phone:800-668-6868.
its completely anonymous. I Hope i helped you with your problem.

Signed Mr. Swag

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Summer Bradshaw

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Apr 30, 2013, 6:18:52 PM4/30/13
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Dear Cookie Face,

Yes this is a hard one, but you have to show your friend the good things in life. Try to show him how to be happy, and try not to worry about his parents. If his grades are really terrible, maybe you should talk to a teacher about it. Maybe they can help out with his school work, and maybe even talk to the parents. No kid should be going threw this, but at least your trying to help him.

Sincerely,
Mr. Swag

Joshua Angulo Carrera

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May 2, 2013, 4:52:18 PM5/2/13
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Dear Cookie Face

I suggest to tell  to tell a parent or close friend for advice. If they dont give very good advice i suggest to call kids help phone 


On Friday, April 26, 2013 11:13:53 AM UTC-4, Bishoy Mikhail wrote:

Eeti Mehta

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May 4, 2013, 7:33:49 PM5/4/13
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Dear Cookie Face,

I think you should go and talk to your friend's parents. They need to
know what is happening to their child because of them. I'm sure that
if they find out what he's trying to do, They will try and cooperate
with each other. You need to make your friend understand that just
because his parents are fighting, doesn't mean he needs to ruin his
life. He is a bright student and has a lot of opportunities waiting
for him. Get him into something that would distract him from his
family problems.

Signed
Mr. Swag
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