My ideal American Family would be two parents whom were married before they had children and are loving and caring. Typically the mom stays at hone and cooks and clean for her family while the dad is the provider. I personally believe moms are not limited to stay at home. Mothers can also be providers too yet still holding the household down.
The traditional american family was a mom, a dad, and a few kids. The dad worked, and the mom stayed home and took care of the kids and the house. My vision of the American Family now is a single parent and one or a few kids. The parent works and the kid(s) help out around the house. Thats basically how my family is, so maybe thats why I picture it to be like that.