I use max9, but have used 2009 a couple times on jobs. It seams to mostly be UI changes. I understand that it can hold even bigger scenes. But the biggest changes for me are increased compatibility with maya, and when you add/remove/edit verts after unwrapping it wont completely destroy your unwrap.
I'm not sure what other changes there are but those are the ones ive noticed.
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