Hi!
To install xAct you can follow the instructions in
http://xact.es/download/install
However, I would recommend skipping the step:
"To load the xAct documentation into the Mathematica Help
hierarchy you must execute the `Rebuild Help Index' action on the
Help Menu (versions 5.* of Mathematica), or go to `Installed
Add-Ons' in the Documentation Center (from version 6.0)."
Perhaps, these instructions should be rewritten...
Instead you can manually look up the documentation files in the
folder xAct\Documentation\English\ .
Unfortunately, the documentation is not very well integrated into
the help system. This is partly because it takes too long to write
full pages for each command. You can still find quick info for
each command with ?commandname.
Regards
Thomas