On 01/05/2012 08:26, carolet wrote:
>>>
>>> Now that we've heard Usha talk to Ruth, the whole thing is looking a
>>> bit different. Usha must have been wanting to tell Alan for a while
>>> (as we heard her start "Alan ...") but then changed her mind. Now she
>>> has a very specific reason to talk to Amy first. Are the SWs absolved
>>> this once?
>
> I don't know about absolved, but I'm prepared to give them the benefit of
> the doubt for the moment. Usha does need to do something soon though, or
> that moment will pass.
Well, she's told Ruth but that's about the least helpful thing she could
do. The secret is now no longer a secret, and she needs to get a move on
before it bounces around the village and comes back to Alan or Amy.
(Ruth-David-Brian-Alice...?)
>
>>>
>>> Sebastian
>>
>>
>> Well, I don't think Amy would lie about Carl being married or not. I
>> think if she had known he was married she would just have refrained
>> from bringing him home to introduce him to Usha and Alan, but then I
>> suppose the question is does Usha know her well enough to know that. I
>> think she probably does, in which case this is still silly.
>
> Amy was refraining from bringing him home. It was only after Usha saw him by
> accident, and liked him, that she brought him home.
>
> Has Amy said anything about Carl's marital status? I'd think it was a bit
> odd if my daughter brought a chap home and told me that he was single.
Well, no, she hasn't. As you say, you kind of assume that someone
presented as a steady boyfriend is actually single and available.
If Amy knows he's married, then she also knows that his weekly visits to
his Granny are a fiction, which has passed on to her parents as evidence
of his good character.
I suppose it is just possible that Amy has her suspicions but is too
infatuated to confront Carl about them. That could explain why she was
coy about talking about Carl or introducing him to friends and family.
She could be ignoring the warning signals. But in that case, she'll be
needing help and support from Usha and Alan, the sooner the better.
Usha's silence is just colluding in the lie.