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Marjorie

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Apr 30, 2012, 6:50:54 AM4/30/12
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Usha is supposed to be an intelligent woman with well developed social
and communication skills. She has discovered that the boyfriend of her
step daughter appears to be married, but she has failed to mention this
to Amy, Alan or even Carl himself, despite various opportunities
presenting themselves. When she and Alan had a few moments alone (this
was, I think, a day after he'd returned home, so they'd presumably have
had a night alone together) she just let him rabbit on about how nice
Carl is, and by the time she got round to saying, ""Alan.." it was too
late (again).

What's the matter with her? Is she happy to go on entertaining Carl in
her home, listening to his excuses for absences, and allowing Amy to be
deceived, until she finds a comfortable opportunity to pass the buck on
to Alan and feels in the mood to do so?

This SWs' ploy of postponing a disclosure by constant interruptions is
getting ridiculous. Any rational person in Usha's position would have a
sense of urgency about this and be anxious to deal with it before any
further damage was done. Usha and Alan live together. Since she
evidently isn't going to confront Carl or Amy about this herself, why
hasn't she told her husband?


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a l l y

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Apr 30, 2012, 7:04:17 AM4/30/12
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"Marjorie" <dontuseth...@springequinox.co.uk> wrote in message
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Yes. Quite. In her position, I'd have told him practically before I did
anything else, as soon as he got home! I can't think of any good reason why
she'd be reluctant or worried about telling him. What's the point of being
in a long-term relationship if your other half isn't your confidante,
especially when it's a matter concerning him?

ally

badriya

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Apr 30, 2012, 7:06:07 AM4/30/12
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You do well to ask why. I think it might be because the person
designing the story lines and directions is a pile of slurry. What
the SW team need is one of those expensive slurry pits to deal with
the problem.

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Vicky

badriya

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Apr 30, 2012, 7:09:04 AM4/30/12
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B says badgers have tunneled into the script which accounts for all
the holes in it. Not that he listens to TA, oh nonono, or reads
UMRA. He doesn't have to read it. I read it to him ;)





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Vicky

Chris J Dixon

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Apr 30, 2012, 7:10:39 AM4/30/12
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Marjorie wrote:

>This SWs' ploy of postponing a disclosure by constant interruptions is
>getting ridiculous. Any rational person in Usha's position would have a
>sense of urgency about this and be anxious to deal with it before any
>further damage was done. Usha and Alan live together. Since she
>evidently isn't going to confront Carl or Amy about this herself, why
>hasn't she told her husband?

Looking at it logically, this all-too-common dramatic device is
pretty hard to believe isn't it? Just because it doesn't happen
during the 73 minutes a week during which we eavesdrop, we are
expected to accept that no other opportunities could possibly
have presented themselves.

Presumably Ruth is about to be consulted.

Chris
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Robin Fairbairns

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Apr 30, 2012, 7:15:17 AM4/30/12
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badriya <badr...@gmail.com> writes:

> On Mon, 30 Apr 2012 11:50:54 +0100, Marjorie
> <dontuseth...@springequinox.co.uk> wrote:
>
>>[...]
>>This SWs' ploy of postponing a disclosure by constant interruptions is
>>getting ridiculous. Any rational person in Usha's position would have a
>>sense of urgency about this and be anxious to deal with it before any
>>further damage was done. Usha and Alan live together. Since she
>>evidently isn't going to confront Carl or Amy about this herself, why
>>hasn't she told her husband?
>
> You do well to ask why. I think it might be because the person
> designing the story lines and directions is a pile of slurry. What
> the SW team need is one of those expensive slurry pits to deal with
> the problem.

hmm. surely it's difficult to have a _pile_ of slurry, other than in
antarctica (so some such place). has the sw team emigrated to
antarctica? (would explain how they come to be so far removed from real
life, i suppose.)
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sorry about all this posting. i'll go back to sleep in a bit.

badriya

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Apr 30, 2012, 8:01:46 AM4/30/12
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Actually I was assuming slurry is cow poo and so is like manure, but
it does sound more liquid. The word does. Wikipedia says it is a
mixture of animal waste and water used as fertilizer.
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Vicky

badriya

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Apr 30, 2012, 8:08:32 AM4/30/12
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On Mon, 30 Apr 2012 12:10:39 +0100, Chris J Dixon <ch...@cdixon.me.uk>
wrote:

>Marjorie wrote:
>
>>This SWs' ploy of postponing a disclosure by constant interruptions is
>>getting ridiculous. Any rational person in Usha's position would have a
>>sense of urgency about this and be anxious to deal with it before any
>>further damage was done. Usha and Alan live together. Since she
>>evidently isn't going to confront Carl or Amy about this herself, why
>>hasn't she told her husband?
>
>Looking at it logically, this all-too-common dramatic device is
>pretty hard to believe isn't it? Just because it doesn't happen
>during the 73 minutes a week during which we eavesdrop, we are
>expected to accept that no other opportunities could possibly
>have presented themselves.
>
>Presumably Ruth is about to be consulted.
>
>Chris


That might be their idea of a suspenseful plot line. Usha tells Ruth.
Ruth confides in David. David shares it with Brian or Adam while at
the hospital and Brian tells Anabelle. She tells Carl's wife? Or
Jennifer tells Alice who tells Amy?

--
Vicky

Sebastian Lisken

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Apr 30, 2012, 8:58:19 AM4/30/12
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Marjorie <dontuseth...@springequinox.co.uk> wrote:
> This SWs' ploy of postponing a disclosure by constant interruptions is
> getting ridiculous. Any rational person in Usha's position would have a
> sense of urgency about this and be anxious to deal with it before any
> further damage was done.

Those were my exact thoughts as I listened, and I think complaints
should be sent to Feedback. Not that they'd admit any wrongdoing.

Sebastian

a l l y

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Apr 30, 2012, 9:38:24 AM4/30/12
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"badriya" <badr...@gmail.com> wrote in message
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Yes when you live in the countryside you know all about slurry, whether you
like it or not. Just when you've got used to a nice reliable dog-walk across
several sheep-free fields, the time of year comes around when the farmer
decides to spread slurry all over the hitherto pristine, grass-scented
grass, making said walk only available to those wearing washable footwear
and suffering from stuffy noses. Some dogs, of course, love the stuff and
will happily roll in it.

ally

EllTee

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Apr 30, 2012, 10:00:44 AM4/30/12
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In article <kkssp7936ghq7bk7e...@4ax.com>,
badriya wrote:

>
>
> B says badgers have tunneled into the script which accounts for all
> the holes in it. Not that he listens to TA, oh nonono, or reads
> UMRA. He doesn't have to read it. I read it to him ;)

I caught Mr Btms lurking in umra recently.
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Btms

Mark Williams

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Apr 30, 2012, 10:31:54 AM4/30/12
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"a l l y" <al...@situponTAKETHEDOGGIEOUTseats.co.uk> wrote in message
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Very true. Slurry is a county that lies between Hampshire and London.


Robin Fairbairns

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Apr 30, 2012, 10:59:04 AM4/30/12
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badriya <badr...@gmail.com> writes:

> B says badgers have tunneled into the script which accounts for all
> the holes in it. Not that he listens to TA, oh nonono, or reads
> UMRA. He doesn't have to read it. I read it to him ;)

<giggles> (again, coming back to it...)

Martin Clark

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Apr 30, 2012, 11:14:05 AM4/30/12
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On 30/04/2012 12:15, Robin Fairbairns wrote:
> badriya<badr...@gmail.com> writes:
>
>> On Mon, 30 Apr 2012 11:50:54 +0100, Marjorie
>> <dontuseth...@springequinox.co.uk> wrote:
>>
>>> [...]
>>> This SWs' ploy of postponing a disclosure by constant interruptions is
>>> getting ridiculous. Any rational person in Usha's position would have a
>>> sense of urgency about this and be anxious to deal with it before any
>>> further damage was done. Usha and Alan live together. Since she
>>> evidently isn't going to confront Carl or Amy about this herself, why
>>> hasn't she told her husband?
>>
>> You do well to ask why. I think it might be because the person
>> designing the story lines and directions is a pile of slurry. What
>> the SW team need is one of those expensive slurry pits to deal with
>> the problem.
>
> hmm. surely it's difficult to have a _pile_ of slurry, other than in
> antarctica (so some such place).

That would be the slurry with the fridge on top.
--
Martin

Martin Clark

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Apr 30, 2012, 11:15:53 AM4/30/12
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On 30/04/2012 13:08, badriya wrote:
>
> That might be their idea of a suspenseful plot line. Usha tells Ruth.
> Ruth confides in David. David shares it with Brian or Adam while at
> the hospital and Brian tells Anabelle. She tells Carl's wife? Or
> Jennifer tells Alice who tells Amy?
>
That sounds very convoluted. Isn't Susan in the cast this week?
--
Martin

Martin Clark

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Apr 30, 2012, 11:22:51 AM4/30/12
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On 30/04/2012 11:50, Marjorie wrote:
> Usha is supposed to be an intelligent woman with well developed social
> and communication skills. She has discovered that the boyfriend of her
> step daughter appears to be married, but she has failed to mention this
> to Amy, Alan or even Carl himself, despite various opportunities
> presenting themselves. When she and Alan had a few moments alone (this
> was, I think, a day after he'd returned home, so they'd presumably have
> had a night alone together) she just let him rabbit on about how nice
> Carl is, and by the time she got round to saying, ""Alan.." it was too
> late (again).

Lazy scriptwriting. And didn't you know that the characters never speak
to each other in bed or at any other time when the microphones are
switched off? At 7.20 pm each evening everyone in the village goes into
a sort of cryonic state until being re-activated the following day.

> What's the matter with her?

You mean "what's the matter with TB?" Someone should go.
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Martin

Marjorie

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Apr 30, 2012, 11:37:00 AM4/30/12
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You're right, of course. Usha has, up to now, been a shrewd and sensible
woman, and she does not deserve this visitation by the Personality
Transplant Fairy, turning her into an idiot for the sake of dramatic
tension.

Steve Hague

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Apr 30, 2012, 12:25:15 PM4/30/12
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Yes, this is getting very silly indeed. The Usha we all know would have told
Alan all about it as soon as he got home. After all she is married to just
about the most (or possibly only) sensitive man in Ambridge.
Steve


EllTee

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Apr 30, 2012, 12:28:28 PM4/30/12
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In article <8rWdnXQWvaswLAPS...@brightview.co.uk>,
They could have achieved a similar dramatic affect by Usha telling Alan
but then being interrupted before they had chance to discuss it properly
and both being quite distracted about all else that is happening because
of the shared need to get back to the Amy/Carl discussion asap.
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Btms

Dumrat

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Apr 30, 2012, 1:43:11 PM4/30/12
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I signed in to Umra today pecifically because I was so annoyed about
this, but you all put it so much better than wot I could have :)

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Salaam Alaykum,
Anne, Exceptionally Traditionally-built Dumrat

J. P. Gilliver (John)

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Apr 30, 2012, 3:32:21 PM4/30/12
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In message <a07ohv...@mid.individual.net>, Martin Clark
<re...@your.peril> writes:
>On 30/04/2012 12:15, Robin Fairbairns wrote:
>> badriya<badr...@gmail.com> writes:
[]
>>> You do well to ask why. I think it might be because the person
>>> designing the story lines and directions is a pile of slurry. What
>>> the SW team need is one of those expensive slurry pits to deal with
>>> the problem.
>>
>> hmm. surely it's difficult to have a _pile_ of slurry, other than in
>> antarctica (so some such place).
>
>That would be the slurry with the fridge on top.

Very quick! I'm just wondering who I can share that with; my
language-loving friends might not know Oklahoma. (Where, incidentally,
my brother's just been doing a lecture tour - at least, it included OK.)
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J. P. Gilliver (John)

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Apr 30, 2012, 3:39:02 PM4/30/12
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In message <a07gjb...@mid.dfncis.de>, Sebastian Lisken
[]
Well, not Usha particularly, but the overuse of the dramatic device of
something important (especially something needing to be communicated)
being interrupted by something, be it a 'phone call or a mother, _is_
worthy of a communication to FedUp. It would be becoming a joke, if it
wasn't so irritating; definitely lazy SWing.

Mower Man

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Apr 30, 2012, 4:10:27 PM4/30/12
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Sadly, the thing has become just a "soap". And in a soap no character
ever acts credibly or with any regard to others - all is sublimated to
the "hook", the endless unfinished story.
--
Chris

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every six months.'

(Oscar Wilde.)

john ashby

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Apr 30, 2012, 4:33:57 PM4/30/12
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Where does he rate on a scale of 1 to Ian?

john


Sebastian Lisken

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Apr 30, 2012, 4:36:24 PM4/30/12
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"J. P. Gilliver (John)" <G6...@soft255.demon.co.uk> wrote:
[about my suggestion to complain to Feedback]
> Well, not Usha particularly, but the overuse of the dramatic device of
> something important (especially something needing to be communicated)
> being interrupted by something

Yes, I didn't mean Usha in particular, but that device, especially
in a situation when someone has something important to tell. Jennifer
interrupting Alice and Chris is something else I think, annoying too
but in my view in a different category.

Now that we've heard Usha talk to Ruth, the whole thing is looking a
bit different. Usha must have been wanting to tell Alan for a while
(as we heard her start "Alan ...") but then changed her mind. Now she
has a very specific reason to talk to Amy first. Are the SWs absolved
this once?

Sebastian

badriya

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Apr 30, 2012, 5:07:10 PM4/30/12
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On 30 Apr 2012 20:36:24 GMT, Sebastian Lisken
Well, I don't think Amy would lie about Carl being married or not. I
think if she had known he was married she would just have refrained
from bringing him home to introduce him to Usha and Alan, but then I
suppose the question is does Usha know her well enough to know that. I
think she probably does, in which case this is still silly.

I saw something very unusual on tv yesterday morning . I sometimes
catch a feedback type programme in the morning around 8a.m on BBC1 and
viewers' letters are read out and sometimes BBC producers are
interviewed to respond to criticism.

The criticism was about the quality of the morning magazine/news since
it moved to Salford a few weeks ago. The producer said they were
listening to criticisms and tweeking the camera angles etc to comply
with comments!

--
Vicky

Martin Clark

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Apr 30, 2012, 5:20:24 PM4/30/12
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On 30/04/2012 20:32, J. P. Gilliver (John) wrote:
> In message <a07ohv...@mid.individual.net>, Martin Clark
> <re...@your.peril> writes:
>> On 30/04/2012 12:15, Robin Fairbairns wrote:
>>> badriya<badr...@gmail.com> writes:
> []
>>>> You do well to ask why. I think it might be because the person
>>>> designing the story lines and directions is a pile of slurry. What
>>>> the SW team need is one of those expensive slurry pits to deal with
>>>> the problem.
>>>
>>> hmm. surely it's difficult to have a _pile_ of slurry, other than in
>>> antarctica (so some such place).
>>
>> That would be the slurry with the fridge on top.
>
> Very quick! I'm just wondering who I can share that with; my
> language-loving friends might not know Oklahoma. (Where, incidentally,
> my brother's just been doing a lecture tour - at least, it included OK.)

So does Stoke-on-Trent! :)
--
Martin

Tony Bryer

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Apr 30, 2012, 6:03:16 PM4/30/12
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On Mon, 30 Apr 2012 17:25:15 +0100 Steve Hague wrote :
> Yes, this is getting very silly indeed. The Usha we all know would have
> told Alan all about it as soon as he got home. After all she is married
> to just about the most (or possibly only) sensitive man in Ambridge.

She knows who Carl is (via CoC) so surely the most appropriate way to
handle this would be for her to phone him up, tell him she knows he's
married, and that he needs to let Amy down sensitively rather promptly.

--
Tony B, OzRat, Melbourne

Dr Nick

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May 1, 2012, 2:08:24 AM5/1/12
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badriya <badr...@gmail.com> writes:

> I saw something very unusual on tv yesterday morning . I sometimes
> catch a feedback type programme in the morning around 8a.m on BBC1 and
> viewers' letters are read out and sometimes BBC producers are
> interviewed to respond to criticism.
>
> The criticism was about the quality of the morning magazine/news since
> it moved to Salford a few weeks ago. The producer said they were
> listening to criticisms and tweeking the camera angles etc to comply
> with comments!

Perhaps they lost the script in the move - it's still in the bottom of a
box somewhere - and so had to give a real answer instead.
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Sally Thompson

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"J. P. Gilliver (John)" <G6...@soft255.demon.co.uk> wrote:
> In message <a07gjb...@mid.dfncis.de>, Sebastian Lisken
> <lis...@math.Uni-Bielefeld-deletethis.de> writes:
>> Marjorie <dontuseth...@springequinox.co.uk> wrote:
>>> This SWs' ploy of postponing a disclosure by constant interruptions is
>>> getting ridiculous. Any rational person in Usha's position would have a
>>> sense of urgency about this and be anxious to deal with it before any
>>> further damage was done.
>>
>> Those were my exact thoughts as I listened, and I think complaints
>> should be sent to Feedback. Not that they'd admit any wrongdoing.
> []
> Well, not Usha particularly, but the overuse of the dramatic device of
> something important (especially something needing to be communicated)
> being interrupted by something, be it a 'phone call or a mother, _is_
> worthy of a communication to FedUp. It would be becoming a joke, if it
> wasn't so irritating; definitely lazy SWing.

It's beginning to sound like farce, all those phones, people coming in and
out of doors, and nearly being caught without their trousers.


--
Sally in Shropshire, UK

carolet

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May 1, 2012, 3:26:06 AM5/1/12
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>>
>> Now that we've heard Usha talk to Ruth, the whole thing is looking a
>> bit different. Usha must have been wanting to tell Alan for a while
>> (as we heard her start "Alan ...") but then changed her mind. Now she
>> has a very specific reason to talk to Amy first. Are the SWs absolved
>> this once?

I don't know about absolved, but I'm prepared to give them the benefit of
the doubt for the moment. Usha does need to do something soon though, or
that moment will pass.

>>
>> Sebastian
>
>
> Well, I don't think Amy would lie about Carl being married or not. I
> think if she had known he was married she would just have refrained
> from bringing him home to introduce him to Usha and Alan, but then I
> suppose the question is does Usha know her well enough to know that. I
> think she probably does, in which case this is still silly.

Amy was refraining from bringing him home. It was only after Usha saw him by
accident, and liked him, that she brought him home.

Has Amy said anything about Carl's marital status? I'd think it was a bit
odd if my daughter brought a chap home and told me that he was single.

--

CaroleT


Marjorie

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May 1, 2012, 3:57:46 AM5/1/12
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To some extent, but not entirely. I still don't think Usha has the right
to withhold this information from Alan, or (more to the point) would be
likely to do so. If it turns out that Amy has known all along that Carl
is married, Alan is almost certainly bound to find out and will wonder
why he was the last to know. He'll be angry with Usha for not telling
him. It doesn't seem feasible to me that a wife would keep quiet about
something important concerning her husband's daughter, especially
something he's likely to find out eventually, and which she has now
shared with someone outside the family. It still doesn't ring true.

Dumrat

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May 1, 2012, 4:05:15 AM5/1/12
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AOL. As I think you said earlier in the thread, most wives would have
told their husbads first chance they got, probably off-mike.

Marjorie

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May 1, 2012, 4:06:23 AM5/1/12
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On 01/05/2012 08:26, carolet wrote:
>>>
>>> Now that we've heard Usha talk to Ruth, the whole thing is looking a
>>> bit different. Usha must have been wanting to tell Alan for a while
>>> (as we heard her start "Alan ...") but then changed her mind. Now she
>>> has a very specific reason to talk to Amy first. Are the SWs absolved
>>> this once?
>
> I don't know about absolved, but I'm prepared to give them the benefit of
> the doubt for the moment. Usha does need to do something soon though, or
> that moment will pass.

Well, she's told Ruth but that's about the least helpful thing she could
do. The secret is now no longer a secret, and she needs to get a move on
before it bounces around the village and comes back to Alan or Amy.
(Ruth-David-Brian-Alice...?)
>
>>>
>>> Sebastian
>>
>>
>> Well, I don't think Amy would lie about Carl being married or not. I
>> think if she had known he was married she would just have refrained
>> from bringing him home to introduce him to Usha and Alan, but then I
>> suppose the question is does Usha know her well enough to know that. I
>> think she probably does, in which case this is still silly.
>
> Amy was refraining from bringing him home. It was only after Usha saw him by
> accident, and liked him, that she brought him home.
>
> Has Amy said anything about Carl's marital status? I'd think it was a bit
> odd if my daughter brought a chap home and told me that he was single.

Well, no, she hasn't. As you say, you kind of assume that someone
presented as a steady boyfriend is actually single and available.

If Amy knows he's married, then she also knows that his weekly visits to
his Granny are a fiction, which has passed on to her parents as evidence
of his good character.

I suppose it is just possible that Amy has her suspicions but is too
infatuated to confront Carl about them. That could explain why she was
coy about talking about Carl or introducing him to friends and family.
She could be ignoring the warning signals. But in that case, she'll be
needing help and support from Usha and Alan, the sooner the better.
Usha's silence is just colluding in the lie.

badriya

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May 1, 2012, 4:44:55 AM5/1/12
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The only thing is Usha could just keep quiet for ever about having
been told by Annabelle, except now she's told Ruth and once one person
knows it is not safe.

--
Vicky

Serena Blanchflower

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May 1, 2012, 5:31:10 AM5/1/12
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I agree completely. Surely Usha has lived in Ambridge long enough to
know that good never comes of keeping something from your nearest and
dearest, even in (or even especially if) it's for their own peace of mind.

--
Cheers, Serena
Thousands of years ago, cats were worshipped as gods. Cats have never
forgotten this. (Anon)

Serena Blanchflower

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May 1, 2012, 5:37:57 AM5/1/12
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I agree, except I think the way to approach it would be that she'd
heard this disquieting information and wanted to give Carl the chance
to set the record straight. If he couldn't, that would be time enough
to make it clear that, if he didn't tell Amy, she would. Of course,
if he denied it, it would still be entirely reasonable for her to make
enquiries to either confirm or deny what Annabelle had told her.

I can't remember, off hand, exactly what Annabelle said about Carl and
whether it was clear that she knew him, as well as Rochelle,
personally. I think there is at least a possibility that she actually
said (or meant) something like "that must be her husband". Maybe
she's never met Rochelle's husband but just knows he's a handsome West
Indian chap and she jumped to unwarranted conclusions.

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You will be better advised to watch what we do instead of what we say.
(A.A.Milne)

carolet

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May 1, 2012, 5:40:52 AM5/1/12
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Marjorie wrote:
> On 01/05/2012 08:26, carolet wrote:
>>>>
>>>> Now that we've heard Usha talk to Ruth, the whole thing is looking
>>>> a bit different. Usha must have been wanting to tell Alan for a
>>>> while (as we heard her start "Alan ...") but then changed her
>>>> mind. Now she has a very specific reason to talk to Amy first. Are
>>>> the SWs absolved this once?
>>
>> I don't know about absolved, but I'm prepared to give them the
>> benefit of the doubt for the moment. Usha does need to do something
>> soon though, or that moment will pass.
>
> Well, she's told Ruth but that's about the least helpful thing she
> could do. The secret is now no longer a secret, and she needs to get
> a move on before it bounces around the village and comes back to Alan
> or Amy. (Ruth-David-Brian-Alice...?)

Yes, talking to Ruth wasn't really a terribly good idea, but (given that
this is not AE where thoughs can be audible) how do we learn what people are
thinking unless they do confide in somebody?

>>
>>>>
>>>> Sebastian
>>>
>>>
>>> Well, I don't think Amy would lie about Carl being married or not. I
>>> think if she had known he was married she would just have refrained
>>> from bringing him home to introduce him to Usha and Alan, but then I
>>> suppose the question is does Usha know her well enough to know
>>> that. I think she probably does, in which case this is still silly.
>>
>> Amy was refraining from bringing him home. It was only after Usha
>> saw him by accident, and liked him, that she brought him home.
>>
>> Has Amy said anything about Carl's marital status? I'd think it was
>> a bit odd if my daughter brought a chap home and told me that he was
>> single.
>
> Well, no, she hasn't. As you say, you kind of assume that someone
> presented as a steady boyfriend is actually single and available.
>
> If Amy knows he's married, then she also knows that his weekly visits
> to his Granny are a fiction, which has passed on to her parents as
> evidence of his good character.
>
> I suppose it is just possible that Amy has her suspicions but is too
> infatuated to confront Carl about them. That could explain why she was
> coy about talking about Carl or introducing him to friends and family.
> She could be ignoring the warning signals. But in that case, she'll be
> needing help and support from Usha and Alan, the sooner the better.
> Usha's silence is just colluding in the lie.

Yes, Amy certainly seems to believe the visiting Granny story. She says
that's one of the things that she likes about Carl. I don't believe that she
would talk about it like that if she was really suspicious of his reasons
for disappearing at weekends.

I know her shifts might make it difficult, but won't she'd expect to be
invited to North Borsetshire one of these weekends, even if she isn't
introduced to Granny.

--

CaroleT


Serena Blanchflower

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I agree with most of that except that, even if Carl is married, his
granny may be genuine and a large part of his home life, so Amy
wouldn't necessarily be lying about that. It would, however call into
question her oft repeated comment that the importance Carl places on
his family is one of the things she loves about him. Might he have
children, as well as a wife and granny, and he's told Amy that they
are the reason he can't leave a loveless marriage?

--
Cheers, Serena
"It is not the mountain we conquer but ourselves." - Sir Edmund Hillary

the Omrud

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May 1, 2012, 5:43:20 AM5/1/12
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And how far can it be to North Borsetshire? It's not like he's off to
Aberdeen for the weekends.

--
David

Sebastian Lisken

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Marjorie <dontuseth...@springequinox.co.uk> wrote:
> As you say, you kind of assume that someone
> presented as a steady boyfriend is actually single and available.

Or, rather, has just stopped being single and available. :-)

(More superfluous nitpicking: at least under the assumption that
"meeting the parents" is mostly regarded as a serious step and will
therefore be dared only after the relationship has become serious
itself. Of course several alternative scenarios are available.
This is fast turning into one of those advisories found at the end
of pharmaceutical advertisements, so I'll stop now.)

Sebastian

Robin Fairbairns

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May 1, 2012, 6:09:19 AM5/1/12
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of course. the coleopteran creature seems to regard this as an amusing
diversion from the excitement of adam's situation.

tbmg
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john ashby

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May 1, 2012, 6:30:55 AM5/1/12
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She may have lived there, but have you noticed that nobody in Ambridge
ever listens to the Archers?

john


Jenny M Benson

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On 01/05/2012 11:30, john ashby wrote:
> She may have lived there, but have you noticed that nobody in Ambridge
> ever listens to the Archers?

I always think soaps and similar would be greatly enhanced if the
characters from one interacted with those from another. For example, a
resident of Ambridge could go to London and go into the Queen Vic for a
drink.

Linda Snell did once go to a Dame Edna Everage Show, of course.
Wouldn't it be fun, too, if Elizabeth went to see Graham Seed in "Yes,
Prime Minister"? She could get all upset because he reminded her so
much of her late husband.

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Serena Blanchflower

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May 1, 2012, 7:46:33 AM5/1/12
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But that's also peculiar if, as we're clearly supposed to believe,
he's weekly commuting from the family home in North Borsetshire. Just
how long is Borsetshire meant to be? Given that that part of the
country is pretty well supplied with motorways, it's hard to see why
he would need to weekly commute to Felpersham from anywhere in the county.

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Nothing in life is to be feared. It is only to be understood (Marie
Curie)

Dumrat

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May 1, 2012, 7:58:48 AM5/1/12
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I can't remember, if I ever knew, how they met in the first place?
Maybe you have to travel across another couple of counties to get
to North Borsetshire, IYSWIM?

EllTee

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May 1, 2012, 8:15:44 AM5/1/12
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In article <nPKdncG8II4QCgLS...@brightview.co.uk>,
I don't know about "rights" when it comes to values and ethics but I
think it wise of Usha to consider giving Amy the chance to tell her
Father herself; this is assuming Amy does know he is married. This
would explain her 'waiting for the right moment' to introduce them.
--
Btms

EllTee

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May 1, 2012, 8:18:51 AM5/1/12
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In article <jno5gr$ugl$1...@dont-email.me>, Dumrat <duu...@gmail.com>
wrote:
Its not quite the same I know - but I know things about my children
that they don't know I know. I take the attitude that if they are happy
for me to know whatever it is they will tell me, if they don't want me
to know, they won't tell me and if it is just something they view as
unimportant than I should leave it there*.

*The things I have in mind are not, I think, unimportant but are their
business not mine.
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Btms

EllTee

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May 1, 2012, 8:27:45 AM5/1/12
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In article <a09v39...@mid.individual.net>,
istr that on one occasion the EastEnders music was heard? Anyone?
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Btms

the Omrud

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May 1, 2012, 9:02:20 AM5/1/12
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On 01/05/2012 12:58, Dumrat wrote:
> Serena Blanchflower wrote:
>> * the Omrud wrote, On 01/05/2012 10:43:
>>> On 01/05/2012 10:40, carolet wrote:
>>>
>>>> I know her shifts might make it difficult, but won't she'd expect to be
>>>> invited to North Borsetshire one of these weekends, even if she isn't
>>>> introduced to Granny.
>>>
>>> And how far can it be to North Borsetshire? It's not like he's off to
>>> Aberdeen for the weekends.
>>
>> But that's also peculiar if, as we're clearly supposed to believe,
>> he's weekly commuting from the family home in North Borsetshire. Just
>> how long is Borsetshire meant to be? Given that that part of the
>> country is pretty well supplied with motorways, it's hard to see why
>> he would need to weekly commute to Felpersham from anywhere in the
>> county.
>
> I can't remember, if I ever knew, how they met in the first place?

Amy was the midwife who delivered his youngest child?

> Maybe you have to travel across another couple of counties to get
> to North Borsetshire, IYSWIM?

Like South Sudan? Maybe Amy doesn't have a visa for North Borsetshire.

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David

LFS

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I think it was "Neighbours". Clarrie was a fan and pointed out that it
was made by Grundy TV.

--
Laura
(emulate St. George for email)




LFS

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On 01/05/2012 12:18, Jenny M Benson wrote:
> On 01/05/2012 11:30, john ashby wrote:
>> She may have lived there, but have you noticed that nobody in Ambridge
>> ever listens to the Archers?
>
> I always think soaps and similar would be greatly enhanced if the
> characters from one interacted with those from another. For example, a
> resident of Ambridge could go to London and go into the Queen Vic for a
> drink.

I would find it immensely confusing. I already have enough difficulty in
remembering who is in Corrie and who is in EE. Not that it matters in
the slightest but I tend to be in a mildly demented state by the evening
of most days and I could do without further confusion.

Occasionally Corrie comes up with lunacy of the first water: the recent
sight of Norris, Rita, Mary and Tyrone singing "Bohemian Rhapsody",
posed and lit just like Queen, was inspired and unforgettably funny.

vk

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May 1, 2012, 11:24:45 AM5/1/12
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Don't forget Roy singing the 'Galileo' part. Hilarious!

Marjorie

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May 1, 2012, 11:34:18 AM5/1/12
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I was guessing that the "seeing Granny every weekend" was actually to be
understood by us now as "seeing my wife every weekend". It sounds like a
convenient alibi for not being able to see Amy regularly at wekends.

Marjorie

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May 1, 2012, 11:39:24 AM5/1/12
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Same here, I admit. There are even a few little things about them that I
have not told even my husband because they are things I found out by
accident. But this is a bit different: Usha has not made a rational
decision that it's best to keep this confidential - she knows that it
will all come out eventually and then she'll have to pretend she didn't
know, or upset Alan (and possibly Amy) by admitting that she did.

Marjorie

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May 1, 2012, 11:47:33 AM5/1/12
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But so far she has no reason to assume that Amy does know. If she
doesn't know, she deserves to find out as soon as possible, before other
complications arise (wife finds out and confronts her; Carl starts doing
a "Jude", letting her down and changing plans; Amy sees Carl out
socialising with his wife and feels humiliated; Amy gets pregnant; etc).

As anotherrat has remarked, the best thing to do would be for Usha to
speak with Carl first. This would eliminate any possibility of a
misunderstanding, and would probably also reveal whether Amy knows or not.

Marjorie

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May 1, 2012, 11:49:49 AM5/1/12
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I'm pretty sure she said that was her husband, without any "must be" or
other qualification. It sounded as if she'd seen the couple together before.

carolet

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May 1, 2012, 12:45:27 PM5/1/12
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Annabelle definitely knew that Rochelle's husband was call Carl. I would be
a bit of a coincidence(*) if the chap standing next to Rochelle, that
Annabelle assumed to be her husband, was also called Carl.

(*) But this is TA, so that makes no difference whatsoever.

--

CaroleT


carolet

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May 1, 2012, 12:52:24 PM5/1/12
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I would presume that North Borsetshire is south of Birmingham, and we know
that Mark, for one, used to commute there for a while.

--

CaroleT


a l l y

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"carolet" <chez_c...@btinternet.com> wrote in message
news:EZSdnQxtuvk_MgLS...@bt.com...
Well there may well be a real granny, of course. It's just that he doesn't
visit her as often as he claims. Could be tricky taking Amy to visit her,
though, unless the old dear is suffering from Alzheimer's and doesn't
remember Carl's wife.

ally

a l l y

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"carolet" <chez_c...@btinternet.com> wrote in message
news:naWdnQY-DY24jj3S...@bt.com...
Apart from the rule about not having two characters with the same name
(unless it's Bert).

ally

Sam Plusnet

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May 1, 2012, 2:12:37 PM5/1/12
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In article <uaRnr.37813$ev1....@fx13.am4>, usenet...@gmail.com
says...
I thought Borchester had been twinned with Chile .

--
Sam

Rosalind Mitchell

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May 1, 2012, 5:08:12 PM5/1/12
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On 2012-05-01, Marjorie <dontuseth...@springequinox.co.uk> wrote:
> I was guessing that the "seeing Granny every weekend" was actually to be
> understood by us now as "seeing my wife every weekend". It sounds like a
> convenient alibi for not being able to see Amy regularly at wekends.

Now you've got me wondering if there isn't bigamy involved here; a whole
network of wives being given the runaraound.

Roskj

the Omrud

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May 1, 2012, 5:25:55 PM5/1/12
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Blimey, can you network wives? What's the protocol?

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john ashby

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May 1, 2012, 5:30:59 PM5/1/12
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Don't know about the protocol, but the wiring would be Twisted Pair.

john

the Omrud

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May 1, 2012, 5:32:00 PM5/1/12
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On 01/05/2012 22:08, Rosalind Mitchell wrote:
Oooh, can you network wives? Is there an RFC for the protocol?

--
David

the Omrud

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May 1, 2012, 5:33:34 PM5/1/12
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Hmmm. I thought my previous message had been mangled, so I re-did it.

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David

J. P. Gilliver (John)

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May 1, 2012, 5:37:50 PM5/1/12
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In message <a0abi8...@mid.individual.net>, LFS
<la...@DRAGONspira.fsbusiness.co.uk> writes:
>On 01/05/2012 13:27, EllTee wrote:
[]
>> istr that on one occasion the EastEnders music was heard? Anyone?
>
>I think it was "Neighbours". Clarrie was a fan and pointed out that it
>was made by Grundy TV.
>
And Joe wrote to them, to see if there was any connection, presumably
after cash as usual.

ISTR reading that the letter had really been sent.
--
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You can think I'm wrong, but that's no reason to stop thinking. - Dr. Gregory
House (TV character), quoted in Radio Times 1-7/3/2008

Rosalind Mitchell

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I'm not sure but I assume it goes beyond simple handshaking.

Roskj

Nick Odell

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May 1, 2012, 7:02:23 PM5/1/12
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On Tue, 01 May 2012 12:18:02 +0100, Jenny M Benson
<nemo...@hotmail.co.uk> wrote:

>I always think soaps and similar would be greatly enhanced if the
>characters from one interacted with those from another. For example, a
>resident of Ambridge could go to London and go into the Queen Vic for a
>drink.
>
You mean like the TV series "Cheers" and "Frasier"? Mugging up on
Cheers I see that some of the characters appeared in "St Elsewhere"
too.

Nick

carolet

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May 1, 2012, 7:10:29 PM5/1/12
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I think it was the "seeing Granny every weekend" that made some of us
suspect a wife before we had any real evidence. I do believe that there is a
granny as well, and that she is pleased that he has met someone descended
from her fellow villagers. But maybe I'm as gullible as Amy.

--

CaroleT


Ralph B

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May 2, 2012, 1:03:44 AM5/2/12
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Have we considered the possibility that Amy was at work when she met Carl?
i.e. whilst delivering his baby? (or at least his wife's baby?) Before we
say "eww!" I have heard that "ladies of negotiable virtue" are known to
frequent the waiting rooms of maternity hospitals to service long
unserviced hubbies. Of course, if Carl had managed to pull Amy whilst in
the same room as his wife giving birth that would need a certain ...
audacity (or spunk? snigger.) It would certainly extend the definition of
an "open marriage".

Ralph B

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the Omrud <usenet...@gmail.com> wrote:
> On 01/05/2012 12:58, Dumrat wrote:
>> Serena Blanchflower wrote:
>>> * the Omrud wrote, On 01/05/2012 10:43:
>>>> On 01/05/2012 10:40, carolet wrote:
>>>>
>>>>> I know her shifts might make it difficult, but won't she'd expect to be
>>>>> invited to North Borsetshire one of these weekends, even if she isn't
>>>>> introduced to Granny.
>>>>
>>>> And how far can it be to North Borsetshire? It's not like he's off to
>>>> Aberdeen for the weekends.
>>>
>>> But that's also peculiar if, as we're clearly supposed to believe,
>>> he's weekly commuting from the family home in North Borsetshire. Just
>>> how long is Borsetshire meant to be? Given that that part of the
>>> country is pretty well supplied with motorways, it's hard to see why
>>> he would need to weekly commute to Felpersham from anywhere in the
>>> county.
>>
>> I can't remember, if I ever knew, how they met in the first place?
>
> Amy was the midwife who delivered his youngest child?

Ah, IANAOU.

Chris J Dixon

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:-)

Chris
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Marjorie

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May 2, 2012, 4:11:28 AM5/2/12
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It's been suggested already, possibly in this thread.

Before we
> say "eww!" I have heard that "ladies of negotiable virtue" are known to
> frequent the waiting rooms of maternity hospitals to service long
> unserviced hubbies.

Good Lord, I didn't know that. I can't say I ever noticed anyone in a
hospital that looked remotely like someone on the game. Do they dress up
in nurses' uniforms for added excitement?

Jenny M Benson

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May 2, 2012, 5:15:14 AM5/2/12
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Exactly. The Dr in Empty Nest was a neighbour of The Golden Girls too.
I like the way American series do that.

--
Jenny M Benson

Robin Fairbairns

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May 2, 2012, 6:26:36 AM5/2/12
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the medium being spittle.
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sorry about all this posting. i'll go back to sleep in a bit.

Robin Fairbairns

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May 2, 2012, 6:35:39 AM5/2/12
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Ralph B <surprisingly.this...@spampot.com> writes:

> Have we considered the possibility that Amy was at work when she met Carl?
> i.e. whilst delivering his baby? (or at least his wife's baby?) [...]

when our son was delivered at home, i thought the midwife was an
indubitably lovely lady. i only saw her one other time.

(even when i was single, it used to take me several months to approach a
potential girlfriend[*]. not surprisingly, i didn't accrue many.)

[*] lff was an exception. for some reason she was keen on me...

Jenny M Benson

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May 2, 2012, 10:21:12 AM5/2/12
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On 02/05/2012 11:35, Robin Fairbairns wrote:
> (even when i was single, it used to take me several months to approach a
> potential girlfriend[*]. not surprisingly, i didn't accrue many.)
>
> [*] lff was an exception. for some reason she was keen on me...

Entirely understandable.
--
Jenny M Benson

Jim Easterbrook

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May 2, 2012, 12:38:51 PM5/2/12
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Wouldn't coaxial, with low insertion loss straight couplings, be better?
--
Jim

Sam Plusnet

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May 2, 2012, 2:09:37 PM5/2/12
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In article <huj1q7p6sd1acvll0...@4ax.com>,
ch...@cdixon.me.uk says...
>
> john ashby wrote:
>
> >On Tue, 2012-05-01 at 22:25 +0100, the Omrud wrote:
>
> >> Blimey, can you network wives? What's the protocol?
> >
> >Don't know about the protocol, but the wiring would be Twisted Pair.
>
> :-)
>
Screamed Twisted Pair actually.

--
Sam

BrritSki

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May 2, 2012, 2:30:07 PM5/2/12
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Only if the 1st wife caught you, erm, downloading...

Sebastian Lisken

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May 2, 2012, 3:00:02 PM5/2/12
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Or even uploading ...

Sebastian

Sam Plusnet

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May 2, 2012, 3:20:50 PM5/2/12
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In article <a0dehi...@mid.dfncis.de>, lis...@math.Uni-Bielefeld-
deletethis.de says...
Or simply getting loaded.


--
Sam

Nick Odell

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May 2, 2012, 6:38:18 PM5/2/12
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On Wed, 02 May 2012 11:35:39 +0100, Robin Fairbairns
<rf...@cl.cam.ac.uk> wrote:

>when our son was delivered at home,

Bloimey! That Occado's got a lot to answer for.

Nick

Martin Clark

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May 3, 2012, 3:16:53 AM5/3/12
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On 01/05/2012 12:46, Serena Blanchflower wrote:

> But that's also peculiar if, as we're clearly supposed to believe, he's
> weekly commuting from the family home in North Borsetshire. Just how
> long is Borsetshire meant to be?

About 13 minutes a day?
--
Martin

LFS

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May 3, 2012, 3:31:15 AM5/3/12
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<giggle>

--
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Nick Leverton

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May 3, 2012, 3:57:03 AM5/3/12
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In article <9pd3q7dmot4p9agl1...@4ax.com>,
This raises all sorts of questions about the term "delivery slot".

Nick
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Martin Clark

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May 3, 2012, 4:14:07 AM5/3/12
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Boots are already offering something similar: http://twitpic.com/9go8ru
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Martin

Rosalind Mitchell

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May 3, 2012, 5:01:13 AM5/3/12
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It's a natural development from buying them at the chemists isn't it?
That's what I believed for quite a while after I saw a baby being
weighed in the scales at the local pharmacy, which I assume doubled as a
clinic at the time. After all, when you bought a quarter of pear drops
from the sweetie shop next door they were weighed in the scales too.

Roskj

BrritSki

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May 3, 2012, 5:43:54 AM5/3/12
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On 02/05/2012 21:20, Sam Plusnet wrote:
> In article<a0dehi...@mid.dfncis.de>, lis...@math.Uni-Bielefeld-
Presumably an acoustic coupler is a noisy orgasm...

Jo Lonergan

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May 3, 2012, 6:54:27 AM5/3/12
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On Wed, 02 May 2012 11:35:39 +0100, Robin Fairbairns <rf...@cl.cam.ac.uk> wrote:

>Ralph B <surprisingly.this...@spampot.com> writes:
>
>> Have we considered the possibility that Amy was at work when she met Carl?
>> i.e. whilst delivering his baby? (or at least his wife's baby?) [...]
>
>when our son was delivered at home, i thought the midwife was an
>indubitably lovely lady. i only saw her one other time.
>
>(even when i was single, it used to take me several months to approach a
>potential girlfriend[*]. not surprisingly, i didn't accrue many.)
>
>[*] lff was an exception. for some reason she was keen on me...

I thought it took you two years and years to get together, OAM?

--
Jo

badriya

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May 3, 2012, 8:22:45 AM5/3/12
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On Thu, 3 May 2012 07:57:03 +0000 (UTC), Nick Leverton
<ni...@leverton.org> wrote:

>In article <9pd3q7dmot4p9agl1...@4ax.com>,
>Nick Odell <gurzhfvp...@ntlworld.com.invalid> wrote:
>>On Wed, 02 May 2012 11:35:39 +0100, Robin Fairbairns
>><rf...@cl.cam.ac.uk> wrote:
>>
>>>when our son was delivered at home,
>>
>>Bloimey! That Occado's got a lot to answer for.
>
>This raises all sorts of questions about the term "delivery slot".
>
>Nick


The Nicks made oi laugh a lot. Thanks.

It has not been a jolly week here, one way and another.
With a Nick either side for company on the posting stats I shall be
snug and nicely entertained.
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Robin Fairbairns

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May 3, 2012, 10:32:35 AM5/3/12
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getting the point of a proposal of marriage, yes. we _were_ together
for a while in the 60s, though. my only ever prize in a music festival
was with her accompanying me in the sonata class.

later that day, mr kennedy became late.

Dr Nick

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May 3, 2012, 1:52:08 PM5/3/12
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It keeps coming out through the laceholes.

Sorry, wrong punchline.
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Jo Lonergan

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On Thu, 03 May 2012 15:32:35 +0100, Robin Fairbairns <rf...@cl.cam.ac.uk> wrote:

>Jo Lonergan <jolon...@hotmail.com> writes:
>
>> On Wed, 02 May 2012 11:35:39 +0100, Robin Fairbairns
>> <rf...@cl.cam.ac.uk> wrote:
>>
>>>[*] lff was an exception. for some reason she was keen on me...
>>
>> I thought it took you two years and years to get together, OAM?
>
>getting the point of a proposal of marriage, yes. we _were_ together
>for a while in the 60s, though. my only ever prize in a music festival
>was with her accompanying me in the sonata class.
>
Can you remember what the piece was?

>later that day, mr kennedy became late.

And the next day was the first ever episode of Dr Who! What a significant
weekend!

--
Jo

Nick Odell

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May 3, 2012, 5:46:16 PM5/3/12
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Yes. I think that everybody who was alive at the time remembers
exactly where they were and what they were doing when they saw the
first episode of Doctor Who.

What I didn't remember was anything much about the episode itself so
when, a few months ago I found it on that interweb thingy I just had
to watch it.

Oh dear.

2012 me can't understand how 1963 me ever became a fan on the basis of
that evidence.

Nick

J. P. Gilliver (John)

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May 3, 2012, 7:46:12 PM5/3/12
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In message <jrt4q7hcjnktecvm3...@4ax.com>, badriya
<badr...@gmail.com> writes:
>On Thu, 3 May 2012 07:57:03 +0000 (UTC), Nick Leverton
><ni...@leverton.org> wrote:
>
>>In article <9pd3q7dmot4p9agl1...@4ax.com>,
>>Nick Odell <gurzhfvp...@ntlworld.com.invalid> wrote:
>>>On Wed, 02 May 2012 11:35:39 +0100, Robin Fairbairns
>>><rf...@cl.cam.ac.uk> wrote:
>>>
>>>>when our son was delivered at home,
>>>
>>>Bloimey! That Occado's got a lot to answer for.
>>
>>This raises all sorts of questions about the term "delivery slot".
>>
>>Nick
>
>
>The Nicks made oi laugh a lot. Thanks.

I have visions of unusual things coming through the letterbox - or, if
this refers to a different kind of "slot", I must "ask the midwife".
>
>It has not been a jolly week here, one way and another.

Hope it's improved for you.

>With a Nick either side for company on the posting stats I shall be
>snug and nicely entertained.

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May 3, 2012, 7:53:15 PM5/3/12
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In message <3tu5q71ts8d2m627b...@4ax.com>, Nick Odell
<gurzhfvp...@ntlworld.com.invalid> writes:
>On Thu, 03 May 2012 21:13:23 +0200, Jo Lonergan
><jolon...@hotmail.com> wrote:
>
>>On Thu, 03 May 2012 15:32:35 +0100, Robin Fairbairns
>><rf...@cl.cam.ac.uk> wrote:
[]
>>>later that day, mr kennedy became late.
>>
>>And the next day was the first ever episode of Dr Who! What a significant
>>weekend!
>
>Yes. I think that everybody who was alive at the time remembers
>exactly where they were and what they were doing when they saw the
>first episode of Doctor Who.
>
>What I didn't remember was anything much about the episode itself so
>when, a few months ago I found it on that interweb thingy I just had
>to watch it.
>
>Oh dear.
>
>2012 me can't understand how 1963 me ever became a fan on the basis of
>that evidence.
>
>Nick

The technical quality and the script and acting are all creaky by
today's standards, but I think the underlying concepts were sufficiently
unusual - unearthly! - that it appealed to (some of) us, probably in
ways we didn't understand at the time.

Dr Nick

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May 4, 2012, 1:52:36 AM5/4/12
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Nick Odell <gurzhfvp...@ntlworld.com.invalid> writes:

> On Thu, 03 May 2012 21:13:23 +0200, Jo Lonergan
> <jolon...@hotmail.com> wrote:
>
>>On Thu, 03 May 2012 15:32:35 +0100, Robin Fairbairns <rf...@cl.cam.ac.uk> wrote:
>>
>>>Jo Lonergan <jolon...@hotmail.com> writes:
>>>
>>>> On Wed, 02 May 2012 11:35:39 +0100, Robin Fairbairns
>>>> <rf...@cl.cam.ac.uk> wrote:
>>>>
>>>>>[*] lff was an exception. for some reason she was keen on me...
>>>>
>>>> I thought it took you two years and years to get together, OAM?
>>>
>>>getting the point of a proposal of marriage, yes. we _were_ together
>>>for a while in the 60s, though. my only ever prize in a music festival
>>>was with her accompanying me in the sonata class.
>>>
>>Can you remember what the piece was?
>>
>>>later that day, mr kennedy became late.
>>
>>And the next day was the first ever episode of Dr Who! What a significant
>>weekend!
>
> Yes. I think that everybody who was alive at the time remembers
> exactly where they were and what they were doing when they saw the
> first episode of Doctor Who.

I was alive in 1963 and don't remember any of it.
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