Here's what I can tell you:
(A) You should be using the default "Set nameserver" setting. That is suitable for almost all setups, and it looks correct for your setup.
(B) You should try disabling IPv6 and see if that makes a difference.
(C) Unless I'm misunderstanding the ifconfig output, you are not using Wi-Fi or the built-in Ethernet, you are using something else. Or it is some machine that I am not familiar with (a Mac Pro or iMac, perhaps?). That should be OK, but it is unusual and you might want to try using the VPN using a network connection that is built into the computer.
(D) When you get the "Tunnelblick could not fetch IP address information before connection was made" warning, that means that even before a connection to the VPN was attempted, the computer's networking was having problems. In this situation, it was probably because of a bad recovery from a prior attempt to connect to the VPN using a non-default "Set nameserver" setting. Some of the other "Set nameserver xxx" settings will leave the computer's networking in a bad state. Usually it is enough to disconnect/reconnect the network connection by turning Wi-Fi off and back on, or disconnecting and then reconnecting the Ethernet cable, but sometimes it is necessary to restart the computer. Since it appears that you are not using Wi-Fi or the built-in Ethernet, you probably need to restart the computer to clear this situation.
(E) DNS on OS X (now macOS) works differently from DNS on Windows or Linux. It sends DNS queries to the first nameserver on the list, and waits until that nameserver answers. If an answer is received within 30 seconds, it returns that answer and continues normally. If a response is not received within 30 seconds, it retries the DNS request with the next nameserver on the list. If it just tried the last nameserver on the list, starts over with the first nameserver on the list.
(F) "Not receiving a response within 30 seconds" is what is happening to you. Because your VPN setup only puts a single nameserver on the list (that's not unusual for a VPN), it just tries that one nameserver over and over again. But for some reason that nameserver is not responding in a timely manner.
(G) It is possible (unlikely, though) that it is actually a problem with the nameserver itself.
Questions:
- Is anyone else able to use the VPN successfully on a different Mac using Tunnelblick? If so, please provide similar diagnostic info for a successful connect/disconnect cycle on that Mac.
- Is anyone able to use the VPN successfully on any other computer? Can you get the output of the VPN log from a successful connect/disconnect cycle?