I suggest using the new
scripts facility in Tunnelblick 3.2 (beta). You could do it in a "reconnecting.sh" script, and in a "post-disconnect.sh" script. If you don't want it to happen if you purposefully disconnect from the VPN, just do it in "reconnecting.sh". This avoids modifying any standard scripts, which would be overwritten or might become obsolete when you install a new version of Tunnelblick.
First, create a new Location named "Lost-VPN" that has Airport (and perhaps Ethernet? depends on what you want to do) turned off.
Both of the script files should have two lines:
#!/bin/sh -e
scselect Lost-VPN
To get back to your standard networking configuration, change the location back to "Automatic" or whatever else you want. You could do this with the Network System Preferences, or a script like the following:
#!/bin/sh -e
scselect Automatic