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From: tonecl...@googlegroups.com [tonecl...@googlegroups.com] On Behalf Of P S Bonas [pbo...@hotmail.com]
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Subject: RE: [JCO:1010] Unethical, Immoral. Cruel and crude and unconscionable.
I am new to this group and would like to introduce myself. I love love love reading Oates' works and first started reading them in the early '80's. I believe Oates to be a gifted and genius writer. I suspect that there isn't anyone on this list that needs my convincing of Oates's brilliance.
I read Maslin's review of Widow and Randy's response to her review.
Maslin's review does seem bizzarre. Working in the field of psychotherapy, I can say that everyone grieves differently from eachother and grieves differently for each loss. So to judge negatively how someone has grieved is without basis and when used, as was in Maslin' review, it ends up coming across as a cheap shot. Another shot of Maslin's was her insinuation that Oates rode on the coat-tails of Didion's lucrative success with her book about grief and loss. I dont know if Oates' did that or not, but I do offer up that Oates writes and writing is also her work. Who wouldnt ask for a raise at work?? Who wouldnt tap into a market that could provide more compensation??
And on the other hand, I think where Maslin might be coming from is that a book about a widow's memoir that neglects to mention that the widow remarried during the timeline of the story makes the rest of the story seem suspect. It makes the reader feel duped. But that's only if you believe that what Oates' is wriring about is her own real and true experience.
In her published Journal, Oates' said that journal writing is for self. Widow is not a journal. Oates also commented that after writing Do With Me What You Will that she would never offer herself, her feelings again; that is was not worth it. Oates revealed that she believes that one would not wish to write about the person one is, but rather that a novelist values surprise, nuisance and paradox. She writes for others. Oates has minimal appreciation for romantic poets becuase she is not impressed with the self-absorption that comes through in their works.
From the moment that I heard that Widow was out, I knew that if I read it I'd be reading a novel from from one of the most extraordinary master fiction writers.
Peggy
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> Subject: Re: [JCO:1009] Unethical, Immoral. Cruel and crude and unconscionable.
> Date: Wed, 16 Feb 2011 09:06:23 -0500
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> What a bizarrre book review, if one can call it that. Perhaps we can be
> personal in this group, as we are small and have been communicating for some
> years. I myself am mourning the loss of my 23-yr-old son who passed after a
> long illness five months ago. I am still in the 'keeping myself alive'
> stage, and if it were possible I've no doubt I would consider conceiving
> another child as soon as possible. As regards Ms Maslin's uncionscionable
> attack on JCO's manner of grieving: my therapist tells me, "don't let anyone
> tell you how to do it."
>
> Ginny Bucci
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> From: "Oehling, Rick" <oehl...@uww.edu>
> Sent: Tuesday, February 15, 2011 2:09 PM
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> Subject: RE: [JCO:998] Unethical, Immoral. Cruel and crude and
> unconscionable.
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> > Randy
> > What an eloquent and thoughtful reply! Maslin has been notorious for
> > decades for making everything personal, that is how she made "a name for
> > herself."
> > My grandmother used to say that houseguests are like fish -- they start to
> > stink after a few days. Well, the same is true of Maslin's review and I
> > think she'll come to regret publishing it. Especially if she reads
> > reasoned replies like Randy's. Her attack just makes me want to read the
> > memoir even more. Bestway to clear the air of the stink of Marlin, I
> > mean, Maslin.
> > Rick
> >
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> > Subject: [JCO:997] Unethical, Immoral. Cruel and crude and unconscionable.
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> > Thoughts on Janet Maslin's hatchet-job of Joyce Carol Oates.
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> > http://wp.me/p9PHM-4E
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> > Randy
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I agree. While book reviews can illuminate and open ones mind to new ways of interpeting a novel or story, I find some reviewers have an agenda at odds with providing helpful and meaningful commentary. While I haven't read the entire novel, I read an abstract which was published in the 13 December New Yorker magazine. The story was so moving, and so devastating. JCO's ability to describe and convey critical, life altering experiences for the reader is equal to none other writer, at least for me. It brought back memories of an experience with the death of a loved one back over 10 years ago. While the details were different, in some ways, it felt the same -- feeling the guilt of not being
able to "save" your loved one, being out of control and vulnerable to the vagaries and capriciousness of life and death.
I plan to read the entire story shortly, although I've started reading "Bellefleur" and want to keep up the momentum.
For those interested in a balanced, objective, and ultimately more illuminating review of "The Widow's Story", I've attached the link to a recent review by Valarie Sayers from the Washington Post Sunday Book World.
Pamela
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It is interesting to note that many members of this little list show writing prowess not common in a few lists I am member of, how refreshing!
In Israel book critique that was very studious and high profile in the past, has now deteriorated and it seems that crities "just pour down words without a rhythm, nor a song to sing of any real substance"
Furthermore, while a book creates a new reality, it is nevertheless, the harebrain child of the writer. a wonderful child or a lame one, yet book critics sometimes are prone to dialogue with the texts as if they are portrayal of the real world, forgetting that they characters and places and events and plot have life of their own, and that a literary creation should be seen as such. not sure I am making any sense.
That perhaps is the little "tragedy" of the lady who criticized JCO, doing what I describe above.
I am so looking forward to reading her memoire.
Adva
I agree.While book reviews canilluminate and openones mind to new ways ofinterpeting anovel or story,I find some reviewers havean agenda at odds withprovidinghelpful andmeaningful commentary.While I haven't read theentire novel, I readan abstractwhichwas publishedinthe 13 DecemberNew Yorker magazine.The story was so moving, and so devastating. JCO's ability todescribeand convey critical, life altering experiencesfor the reader is equal to none other writer, at least for me. It brought back memoriesofan experience with the death of a loved one back over 10 years ago. While the details weredifferent, in some ways, it felt the same -- feeling the guilt of not being able to "save" your loved one, being out of control and vulnerable to the vagaries and capriciousness of life and death. |
I plan to read the entire story shortly, although I've started reading "Bellefleur" and want to keep up the momentum. |
For those interested in a balanced, objective, andultimately more illuminatingreview of "The Widow's Story", I've attachedthe link to a recent reviewby Valarie Sayers from the Washington Post Sunday Book World. |