If it is of interest, we have deployed a fully conforming, combined sockjs/websocket server in production in AWS that is now benchmarking over 100K clients on c1-mediums with excellent throughput.
We think it can go higher, but we also run a lot of other cruft on these machines: rabbitmq, subscription management, Cassandra interfaces, etc.
We run multi-region, multi-zone and autoscale this layer. We use least-latency routing and ELBs to initially connect, but clients then connect directly to their assigned endpoint and upgrade, bypassing the ELB.
It's python, and part of the NYTimes nyt⨍aбrik, though the heavy lifting is in a libev-driven C co-process. We'll be pushing it out in stages as open source, together with benchmarks.
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(actually I'll re-subscribe from my NYTimes account - this started out as 'fun' but now it is also 'work')