No kidding !!
But the fact remains that if Dr. Roberto Buonamici ever catches you in Tuscany, he will get you sodomized with a nuclear fuel rod.
You should visit Tucson, AZ to do the needful at the tombs of Kim Hi Wong and Tony Chee Mar.
But if you are in a mood to relive old times, go to Phoenix and visit 914 10th Street.
Yale Guen Mar, 914 10th Street in Phoenix should have been like your home. Instead you chose to make it a storage place for your contrabands.
https://groups.google.com/forum/#!topic/soc.culture.china/ee6C3jdVajw
On Monday, December 25, 2006 at 5:09:23 PM UTC-8,
rst0...@yahoo.com wrote:
>
> I am very much interested in hearing from Chinese-Americans within the
> United States on how their aged parents/grandparents were faring in
> their sunset years. It was ironic for me growing up in a small town,
> living in California most of my adult life about a thousand miles from
> "home". As each of us gets older and educated, we leave "home" only to
> come "home" for visit once or twice a year. My sibblings live in
> Tucson about 125 miles away leaving my parents alone at "home". To me,
> "home" was, is and will always be 914 10th St. and I never take any of
> my things from "home" to California.
>
> Then my father got sick and checked into the hospital. My brother in
> Tucson returned "home" and talked to the doctor, who said my father may
> be in hospital for about a week. Since my mother can not speak English
> and alone at home, he decided to transfer my father to Tucson Medical
> Center where he works and move my mother to a retirement home in
> Tucson. The house was sold. "Home" is no more. All my college year
> photos were gone, my short-wave radio, my gun collection, everything in
> my bedroom, including the photos of my favorite pigs, were thrown away
> or given away without telling me.
>
> My father recovered and moved into the retirement home with my mother,
> each taken up a room with a cost of $1,200/month each for a total of
> $2,400. With no outside activities and eat and sleep, my father died
> in 15 months later. My mother died two years later after my father. I
> believe my mother died of loneliness and neglect. I have 3 sibblings
> living in Tucson, not one would visit and talk to my mother often
> enough to care.
>
Yale Guen Mar, can't you ever get over the loss of your gun collection, photos of your favorite pigs and your short-wave radio? Donald and Eugene were only trying to protect you from yourself.
Yale Guen Mar, you are being grossly unfair to your brothers Eugene Yale Mar and Donald Yale Mar. They were achievers. The only reason they got rid of your gun collection, short-wave radio and the photos of your favorite pigs was to save you from yourself.
Quit holding grudges against Donald and Eugene, Get their help to cope with your problems.
Funeral rites for an elderly person follow the prescribed form and convey relevant respect: rites befitting the person's status, age etc. are performed even if this means the family of the deceased must go into debt to pay for them.
Ben Shee Mar and Susan Suye Oy Wong were fortunate to be honored at their burial by their children and grandchildren. They lie buried side by side in Duncanville, Texas.
Nephew Yale Guen Mar was not welcome at the funerals by the Mar clan, and for understandable reasons.
But then Yale Guen Mar wasn't welcome at the funerals of his parents Tony Chee Mar and Kim Hi Wong either. No one wanted him at the funerals.
At Qingming Festival every year, Homer Yale Mar and his siblings pay respect to their parents Ben Shee Mar and Susan Suey Oy Wong, and all relatives and ancestors who have passed away. They spend time tidying up the graves and tombstones of Ben Shee Mar and Susan Suey Oy Wong. They offer food, flowers and paper money to their ancestors.
In stark contrast, Yale Guen Mar spends time sulking about times when he got thrashed by his father Tony Chee Mar and mother Kim Hi Wong for misbehavior.
Tony Chee Mar and Ben Shee Mar were twins.
Tony Chee Mar married Kim Hi Wong. They had lasting regrets about son Yale Guen Mar who gave them only grief.
Tony Chee Mar (1915-1999) was born in 1915, to Hall T. Mar(Chan) and Choi Kang Ma.
Tony married Kim Hi Wong. They had 5 children: Eugene Yale Mar, Yale Guen Mar, Donald Yale Mar and 2 other children.
Tony passed away in 1999, at age 84 in Arizona.
Yale Guen Mar was not allowed at the funeral because no one wanted him there.
https://groups.google.com/forum/#!topic/soc.culture.china/0gktBIhvVfk
On Friday, May 1, 2015 at 8:54:27 AM UTC-7,
r...@gmail.com wrote:
> Yale Guen Mar, you are an ingrate, You bite the hand of parents that feeds
> you. Without them feeding you, how can you grow up without them? You eat
> rice or pasta, and yet you don't know their price. It shows that you are an
> ignorant fool. It shows that you are an ingrate. You have character flaws.
> Perhaps you should stop blaming your dead parents, and repent your life,
> Just stop blaming your mother, Kim Hi Wong, and your father, Tony Chee Mar,
> for all your rants. You are now 77. Own up to your character flaws before
> you faked away.
>
Tony Chee Mar and Kim Hi Wong were good parents. They did everything possible for Yale Guen Mar. Unfortunately, Yale Guen Mar was a very bad son. He continued to wallow in selfishness and utter stupidity.
https://groups.google.com/forum/#!topic/soc.culture.china/Cl4-o1wzUPk
On Wednesday, August 27, 2014 11:09:35 PM UTC-7, rst9 wrote:
> All my relatives/ancestry before my generation were losers.
>
> So don't ever talk about them to me. I have nothing but
>
> contempt for them. And it includes all the cousins I have.
>
Yale Guen Mar, you used to lie to your parents, uncle and aunt. And now you lie on the newsgroup. Yale Guen Mar, you are all sleaze with not an iota of any redeeming feature.
Yale Guen Mar was a bad son from day one. He was not welcome at the funerals of his uncle and aunt abd even at the funerals of his own parents.
To put Yale Guen Mar's villainy in perspective, no one in the Mar clan wanted Yale Guen Mar to attend the funerals of Yale Guen Mar's Uncle (his father's twin brother) some 30 years ago. The pattern was repeated at the funeral of Yale Guen Mar's aunt about half-a-dozen years ago. No one in the Mar clan could stand the thought of Yale Guen Mar being at the funeral. So, cousin Yue Chung Mar very plainly told Yale Guen Mar that he was not welcome.
Yale Guen Ma was a bad son right from his birth !!
A bad mother is a rarity. A bad son a far more common occurrence. Yale Guen Mar is of course trying to shift the blame on his mother. But it is obvious that it is Yale Guen Mar who was always at fault.
Yale Guen Mar never supported his parents financially or otherwise.. It was the parents who indulged Yale Guen Mar when they allowed him to retain his room in their house long after he was no longer a minor.
Yale Guen Mar lost his room only when his 3 siblings put an end to the indulgence. They got rid of everything that Yale Guen Mar had stored in t hat room, including his collection of his semen-stained photos of his favorite pigs.
No one in the Mar family (including the 3 siblings) wants to remember Yale Guen Mar, and understandably so. Yale Guen Mar was specifically told by family members that he was not welcome at the funeral of his own parents, let alone at the funerals of cousin Yue Chung Mar's parents.
Yale Guen Mar is hated by everyone in the Mar clan and rightly so.