On Friday, October 11, 2013 at 10:24:16 AM UTC-7, The Therapist wrote:
> Rst9 - read his responses to Satish. Rst9 disowned/disavowed his
> Chinese culture.
>
> Albert Fung -read his responses, if any, to antifungal. Albert Fung
> still keep his Chinese culture.
>
> The difference is like between day and night.
> __________
> The Therapist
Resty (Yale Guen Mar). you need to address an important issue. You have disavowed/disowned your ancestors and your ancestral culture.
Why don't you ever join your siblings and other family members when they honor your ancestors?
As usual, you were no where to be found when they were honoring your "dad" Tony Chee Mar on Monday, November 5 on the 103rd anniversary of his birth.
Yale Guen Mar, stop sulking about all imaginary slights from the family.
Go to Tucson, AZ and kowtow in front of Tony Chee Mar's grave at the East Palm Cemetery (Lot 49). You'll find your siblings Ellen, Donald and Eugene there tending the tomb of Tony Chee Mar.
Yale Guen Mar, be grateful for everything your "father" Tony Chee Mar did for you selflessly.
* Tony Chee Mar signed papers to declare you to be his son so that
you could find refuge in USA after fleeing CCP takeover of China.
* Tony Chee Mar brought you up in his home in 914 10th Street in Safford, AZ.
* Tony Chee Mar let you work in his cafe.
* Tony Chee Mar taught you English and mathematics.
* Tony Chee Mar tried to teach you the difference between
rational and irrational numbers. It is another matter that
you were too dumb to understand.
* Tony Chee Mar let you have a room in their house at 914 10th Street in Safford, AZ
long after you had reached adulthood.
* Tony Chee Mar bought you a 1963 Pontiac on your 25th birthday.
* You stopped mooching off your parents only when your
siblings Ellen, Donald and Eugene put a stop to it.
Yale Guen Mar, it is time to make a new beginning. Forget your grudge against your "dad" Tony Chee Mar.
Yale Guen Mar, keep these two dates etched in your brain for good:
* November 5, 1915 (Tony Chee Mar's birth)
* March 28, 1999 (Tony Chee Mar's death)
These two days, visit his grave in Lot 49 of East Palm Cemetery in Tucson, AZ.
Meet the other descendants of Tony Chee Mar - sons Donald and Eugene and daughter Ellen. Even grandson Brenton and great grand children Judah, Valentina and Luca.
Help them as they tidy up the grave site, clean the tomb stone, offer incense and paper money and, of course, mai tai.
Yale Guen Mar, you owe a lot to your "dad". Tony Chee Mar was a very kind man :
* Tony Chee Mar gave Yale Guen Mar his first Thanksgiving meal
* Tony Chee Mar let Yale Guen Mar into his own house
on 914 10th Street in Safford, AZ
* Tony Chee Mar taught English and Math to Yale Guen Mar and
taught him the difference between rational and irrational numbers.
* Tony Chee Mar gave Yale Guen Mar his first job at his cafe.
* Tony Chee Mar bought Yale Guen Mar his first car (a 1963 Pontiac).
But Yale Guen Mar was an ingrate. He has continued to resent Tony Chee Mar because:
* Tony Chee Mar had chopped off Yale Guen Mar's pigtail
when he alighted from the ship that had brought him
to San Francisco from Hong Kong.
* Tony Chee Mar refused Yale Guen Mar to shave a straight line in the head.
* Tony Chee Mar insisted on a crew cut for Yale Guen Mar so that he could meld
better with his classmates in the new country.
* Tony Chee Mar punished Yale Guen Mar whenever he strayed from the
straight and narrow (which unfortunately) was far more often than for a normal boy
Yale Guen Mar has refused to get over his grudges.
Yale Guen Mar stays alone at:
3851 Twilight Avenue
Merced, CA 95348
Yale Guen Mar refuses to visit the graves of his parents Tony Chee Mar and Kim Hi Wong in Tucson, AZ even during the Quingming Festival.
Yale Guen Mar, take a train from Merced, CA to Tucson, AZ to be at the grave of your parents Kim Hi Wong and Tony Chee Mar as often as you can . It is in East Palm Cemetery (look for Lot 49).
Here's the address and phone number:
East Palm Cemetery
5801 East Grant Road #C
Tucson, AZ 85712
(520) 886-5561
Also, try to get along with Ellen, Donald and Eugene.
Yale Guen Mar, everything about you is fake.
* fake names (Resty Wyse, Buddy Frank, Rusty Wyseman)
* fake race - Yale Guen Mar claims to be a Caucasian at every opportunity
* fake IDs (rst0/2/4/7/9)
* fake diploma (electrical engineering)
* fake citizenship papers for USA and
* even a fake circumcision scar drawn on your penis with a sharpie !!!