The iron gets rather hot, but the tip doesn't. There's a reason:
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Notice how the tip is held in with a screw threaded in one side.
The idea behind a soldering iron is for the heating element in the
barrel to move as much of the heat towards the tip as possible.
Ideally, the barrel should be fairly cool, while the tip should be as
hot as possible (as limited by a thermostat). Moving the heat out the
end of the ceramic heating element is itself a model of inefficient
thermodynamic design. However, that hasn't stopped Radio Shack from
making it worse by limiting the contact area of the tip. The tip does
NOT fit snuggly into the mating socket in the barrel. There's an air
gap on the side of the mating socket under the screw. There's some
surface contact between the socket and the tip on the opposite side of
the screw, but not much. So, most of the heat is radiated from the
barrel, while very little heat makes it to the tip.
You can probably see the problem with your FLIR IR camera.