Hi Julian,
if all the "exon" lines have the gene_name tag, and all genes have the unique gene_name, you can use --sjdbGTFtagExonParentGene gene_name.
However, this GTF specifications only guarantee it for gene_id tags.
It might be safer to write a short script that will extract gene_id gene_name pairs from the GTF file, and then add the gene_name tag to the ReadPerGene file.
Cheers
Alex