Hi Lisle,
you could get single-end alignments by reducing both --outFilterScoreMinOverLread --outFilterMatchNminOverLread to below 0.5, say to 0.4.
These parameters control the minimum read length normalized to the total read length (sum of the mates).
To output the unmapped read, you will need to use --outSAMunmapped Within , the unmapped mate will have the coordinate of the mapped one according to the standard SAM rules.
Cheers
Alex