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Alex

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Oct 7, 2007, 2:52:04 AM10/7/07
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The last three days, I've had yet another run of Full Tilt luck.

I raise pre-flop (pot-sized or larger), get called by garbage like 76o
and K4o and lose.

I play premium hands and get called (and beaten) by garbage.

I've completed three draws in the last three days (and one of them I
had to give up when a 4th diamond hit the board), but others have been
hitting 2, 3, and 4-outers on me like clockwork.

Assuming others have had the same kind of week, how have you handled
this without tilting?

Maybe I need a few weeks away from the table.

hops

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Oct 7, 2007, 8:48:33 AM10/7/07
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"Alex" <alex...@gmail.com> wrote in message
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It happens to everyone I assume. When I get to the stage of even thinking
about posting to here about it, I stop for the night and have a cold one. If
I am feeling better the next day, I play again. I only learnt to do this
over the last week or so, and I'm sure I'll get riled enough to go against
my better judgement.

I'm running hot at a table full of idiots at the moment. They have the kind
of image Id probably get at a 2.5-5 NLHE table. I have made notes on three
of the players already. You tend to remember the bad ones. I am trying to
keep the memory of the guy I just played calling my AsQs dollar 50 pre
flop raise along with most of the table. I was MP checked to me with 2
spades and a Q on flop (not paired) I bet pot size, Called by two player.
Third spade hits on turn, its Ks I have nut flush. I check next guy bets ,
next raises, I call, guy to my left folds. I guess this guy must have AK or
AQ so I push the river which is an Ace He calls and is all in with A3 off.
\o/

That's one to keep in an easily accessible bit of my memory next time i get
a bad beat.

A


Beldin the Sorcerer

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Oct 7, 2007, 9:42:14 AM10/7/07
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"Alex" <alex...@gmail.com> wrote in message
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It's variance.

What you need is A) a bankroll large enough to withstand variance (which is
higher online due to wilder play) and B) the patience to evaluate your
decisions rationally, and if they're still good, you still play.

Weevil99

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Oct 7, 2007, 11:07:28 AM10/7/07
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Without tilting? Ha! I've been having the same kind of weekend, and I'm
on full tilt. The condition, not the poker room.

I just finished a 45-man SNG at Stars and managed to make it past the
bubble with the 2nd biggest stack. I immediately get a good hand and go
up against the chip leader, who takes me down with nothing. I don't even
want to talk about the cards we had. It's a genuine miracle I cashed at
all, the way things have been going.

Not a good weekend. My palms are sweating, and I'm itching to make back
some of what I've lost. I realize I'm beginning to play badly, but I
can't seem to stop.

This is the first time I've experienced this. I have no idea how to
handle it.

>
> Maybe I need a few weeks away from the table.

If you figure out how to handle it, post a followup.

Will in New Haven

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Oct 7, 2007, 11:29:14 AM10/7/07
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Tilt-Proofing Method:

This is very likely to work if you are willing to try it. It comes
from a suggestion from Mike Caro. People often refuse to try because
it would not be worth it. That, of course, is your choice.

Step One: Give up the positive feelings, the rush, when you win a pot.
Let it go. Just stack your chips or do whatever you do online and go
on to the next hand. It is easier to detach from your _good_ results
and will make it easier to detach from your bad results.

Second Step: Stop characterizing your opponents in an emotional
manner. When you think about your opponents, think about their
_specific qualities_ as players and don't characterize them in a
general negative manner. It can be difficult to accept being defeated
by a donkey but losing a hand because a very loose player called,
which is what you expect, when most people wouldn't is part of doing
business.

Third Step: Don't anticipate winning a pot. No matter what cards you
hold, everyone else has to fold or you have to show down the winning
five-card poker hand to win. That means the sense of entitlement when
you are looking at a premium hand is not wise. Just play, don't feel.

Fourth Step: Don't get a big kick out of a winning session or a good
tournament result. Just do your book-keeping and go off to the next
thing in your life.

Fifth Step: Play more cash and fewer tournaments. It is hard not to
react emotionally to a beat that takes you out of a tournament and it
is hard to avoid exalting when you do well.

Sixth Step: Play lower. If your emotions can't stay out of your game,
you may be playing for stakes that are too high.

Take any satisfaction you get out of making correct decisions.
Banishing positive emotions from your game will help you banish the
negative emotions.

Will in New Haven

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"Phil's last book was called _Play Poker like the Pros_ his next book
should be called _Cry Like a Baby_" Norm Chad

Weevil99

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Oct 7, 2007, 12:15:50 PM10/7/07
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Thank you very much for taking the time to post this. I'm going to save
this to a text file and put it on my Desktop so I can click into it
whenever I want. Just reading it helps.

Steps 5 and 6 won't work for me, though. Step 5 recommends more cash
games, and I'm not really in it for that. I like tournaments. Golf,
pool, darts, chess, poker...I just like to compete in tournaments.

Step 6 is no good for me, either, since I already play at the microscopic
level. It isn't losing the small entry fees that bothers me, anyway.
It's this extended statistical anomaly I'm going through that prevents
the laws of probability from doing their duty and letting me win! :)

Anyway, thanks. I'm going to read it again, slip on my best Ghandi
persona, and plunge into yet another $1.75 SnG grinder.

Deep breaths. Calm, peaceful thoughts. The universe does not hate
me...the universe does not hate me...ohhhhmmmmmmmmmm

Okay. This is better. I feel like I can play without becoming too
emotionally invested in the outcome. Very nice.

And now...it's time to make those bastards pay!


Will in New Haven

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Oct 7, 2007, 12:20:10 PM10/7/07
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If understand the cold, uncaring nature of the universe can help
anywhere, it can help at poker. The U doesn't hate you. It just does
not give a fuck. Do well, man, play hard.

Irish Mike

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Oct 7, 2007, 1:39:59 PM10/7/07
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Play LHE, reduce the impact of some one hiting a long shot against you,
minimize swings and enable your superior hand selection and playing skills
to consistently take their money.

Irish Mike


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Will in New Haven

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Oct 7, 2007, 1:49:08 PM10/7/07
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On Oct 7, 1:39 pm, "Irish Mike" <mjos...@ameritech.net> wrote:
> Play LHE, reduce the impact of some one hiting a long shot against you,
> minimize swings and enable your superior hand selection and playing skills
> to consistently take their money.

As long as LHE attracts enough inferior players this is certainly
true. I am not saying that it will but NL may draw off almost all the
"customers." If that is the case, continuing to play it would be bad
business, like continuing to try to make a living at Draw and Lowball
when the other games were made legal in California.

Will in New Haven

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> Irish Mike
>
> "Alex" <alexk...@gmail.com> wrote in message

mccard

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Oct 7, 2007, 2:25:56 PM10/7/07
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> On Sun, 07 Oct 2007 15:29:14 +0000, Will in New Haven wrote:
>
You are not the only one :) Hope this makes you feel better, lol.

PokerStars Game #12491151259: Tournament #63398589, $8.00+$0.80 Hold'em No
Limit - Match Round I, Level II (15/30) - 2007/10/07 - 14:17:07 (ET)
Table '63398589 5' 6-max Seat #6 is the button
Seat 6: mccard (90 in chips)
trickrider1: posts small blind 15
Jack1313: posts big blind 30
*** HOLE CARDS ***
Dealt to mccard [Ah As]
mccard: raises 60 to 90 and is all-in
trickrider1: folds
Jack1313: calls 60
*** FLOP *** [5h 2h 4s]
*** TURN *** [5h 2h 4s] [6d]
*** RIVER *** [5h 2h 4s 6d] [2d]
*** SHOW DOWN ***
Jack1313: shows [2c 3c] (a straight, Deuce to Six)
mccard: shows [Ah As] (two pair, Aces and Deuces)
Jack1313 collected 195 from pot
*** SUMMARY ***
Total pot 195 | Rake 0
Board [5h 2h 4s 6d 2d]
Seat 2: Jack1313 (big blind) showed [2c 3c] and won (195) with a straight,
Deuce to Six
Seat 6: mccard (button) showed [Ah As] and lost with two pair, Aces and
Deuces

Irish Mike

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Oct 7, 2007, 6:56:00 PM10/7/07
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True. Fortunately for me, I have access to good limit games. But the
question is, how long will the fish continue to play, and lose, at no limit?
We know they are going to lose regardless of the betting structure but they
difference is that they tend to last longer in limit games.

Irish Mike


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Kenneth Sloan

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Oct 7, 2007, 9:41:16 PM10/7/07
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Weevil99 wrote:
> On Sun, 07 Oct 2007 06:52:04 +0000, Alex wrote:
>
>> The last three days, I've had yet another run of Full Tilt luck.
>>
>> I raise pre-flop (pot-sized or larger), get called by garbage like 76o
>> and K4o and lose.
>>
>> I play premium hands and get called (and beaten) by garbage.
>>
>> I've completed three draws in the last three days (and one of them I had
>> to give up when a 4th diamond hit the board), but others have been
>> hitting 2, 3, and 4-outers on me like clockwork.
>>
>> Assuming others have had the same kind of week, how have you handled
>> this without tilting?
>
> Without tilting? Ha! I've been having the same kind of weekend, and I'm
> on full tilt. The condition, not the poker room.
>
> I just finished a 45-man SNG at Stars and managed to make it past the
> bubble with the 2nd biggest stack. I immediately get a good hand and go
> up against the chip leader,

I stopped reading here.

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Lord Turkey Cough

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Oct 8, 2007, 1:01:25 AM10/8/07
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"Alex" <alex...@gmail.com> wrote in message
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Quit the site immediately.

Seriously, unless you are talking about early hands in a tourney where
you can call a 4X+ raise with anything.

Where there is money is where you find crooks.


Will in New Haven

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Oct 8, 2007, 9:36:17 AM10/8/07
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On Oct 7, 6:56 pm, "Irish Mike" <mjos...@ameritech.net> wrote:
> True. Fortunately for me, I have access to good limit games. But the
> question is, how long will the fish continue to play, and lose, at no limit?
> We know they are going to lose regardless of the betting structure but they
> difference is that they tend to last longer in limit games.

And if NL dries up, they would be gone and the good players would have
their money. And this is bad because? Obviously, a failure to adopt to
whatever the next good game would be would be bad but we haven't
reached that point yet. On the other hand, we have not reached a point
where you can't do well at limit, so I am not saying you shoud switch.
Just be aware of where the action is.

Will in New Haven

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> Irish Mike
>
> "Will in New Haven" <bill.re...@taylorandfrancis.com> wrote in messagenews:1191779348.5...@50g2000hsm.googlegroups.com...

> >> > Maybe I need a few weeks away from the table.- Hide quoted text -
>
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Irish Mike

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Oct 8, 2007, 12:11:58 PM10/8/07
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The choice between LHE and NLH isn't an "either, or" choice. I play both NL
and LHE now but, given a choice, I'll play limit cash games- especially if
the game is short handed. In tournaments, I prefer NL. For me, LHE offers
the best combination +EV with small swings and minimal risk. Also, I think
short handed LHE offers the most action. You can't deny the popularity of
NL, but at low stakes ($1/$2) it can be a little slow and boring. I mean
how much time do you want to spend watching two backwards-baseball-cap, sun
goggle wearing guys doing their best TV stare down? Or, asking each other
stupid questions to get a "tell", when they wouldn't know a tell if they
tripped over one. Also, a number of poker rooms are finally wising up,
realizing how slow some of these NL games play, and switching to time charge
instead of rake. As a more selective player, I prefer raked games. Even
so, I'm starting to play more NL.

Irish Mike


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Weevil99

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Oct 8, 2007, 5:50:07 PM10/8/07
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On Sun, 07 Oct 2007 20:41:16 -0500, Kenneth Sloan wrote:

> Weevil99 wrote:
>> On Sun, 07 Oct 2007 06:52:04 +0000, Alex wrote:
>>
>>> The last three days, I've had yet another run of Full Tilt luck.
>>>
>>> I raise pre-flop (pot-sized or larger), get called by garbage like 76o
>>> and K4o and lose.
>>>
>>> I play premium hands and get called (and beaten) by garbage.
>>>
>>> I've completed three draws in the last three days (and one of them I
>>> had to give up when a 4th diamond hit the board), but others have been
>>> hitting 2, 3, and 4-outers on me like clockwork.
>>>
>>> Assuming others have had the same kind of week, how have you handled
>>> this without tilting?
>>
>> Without tilting? Ha! I've been having the same kind of weekend, and
>> I'm on full tilt. The condition, not the poker room.
>>
>> I just finished a 45-man SNG at Stars and managed to make it past the
>> bubble with the 2nd biggest stack. I immediately get a good hand and
>> go up against the chip leader,
>
> I stopped reading here.

Yeah, I know. My play went from mediocre to bad over the weekend. I'm
still a novice at poker, but that's really no excuse. I let the bad
beats get to me and started doing things I normally don't do. My usual
game is fairly tight. I've folded AQ on the button after a raise and re-
raise. I don't think I've ever folded AA or KK pre-flop, but I know I've
folded QQ in late position with the table going crazy ahead of me.

Anyway, my play is correctable. What I've been whining about all weekend
is this extended bad beat streak I've been having. I'm worried that it
will have too big an effect on whatever intuition I'm developing for the
game due to my lack of experience. Already I've noticed that when I get
AK, I have little confidence that it will hold up against a single
opponent, let alone multiple callers. And I'm reluctant to play pairs at
all below KK, because I've been beaten so many times by flopped
straights, flopped two pairs, flopped sets from somebody with a lower
pair, etc. Actually, I'm reluctant to get in ANY pots because my hands
have rarely held up this weekend.

This is not how to play poker, and it's not how I was playing before. If
I had lots of experience, I imagine I would be able to overlook the
streak more easily, but I've only been playing since the beginning of
August or so, and with real money only since Sept 1st, so this weekend
was a pretty good sized fraction of my total experience.

But that's not why I'm replying, although it feels kind of good to sort
out my thoughts on "paper." I'm replying because I recognize your name
from the early days of rgc, even before it was split into 5 sub-groups.
I remember you as someone whose expertise in probability and statistics I
respect very much.

I'd like to do some simple statistical analysis on my hand histories, but
doing it by hand is way too tedious. I actually did it by hand to
compare the frequency of AA to that of 72o (which turned out to match
pretty well with statistical prediction), but not only did that take more
time than it was worth, but I'd really like to get a little more
sophisticated than that. I'd like to do things like find good streaks
and bad streaks where the outcome of, say, one or two days worth of hands
are significantly better or worse than probability would predict (maybe
two or more standard deviations away from the expected value). I'd also
be interested in learning, say, my success rate from different positions
at the table, or different starting hands, etc. That sort of thing.

I've been Googling around to see what kind of software might be out there
for this sort of thing, but it's kind of hard to tell much about any of
it just by reading their web pages. What I'd like to know is what *you*
use, if anything. As soon as I saw your name, I figured you'd have a
pretty thorough knowledge of any poker analysis software out there, so
I'd like to know if there's anything you recommend.

Thanks for any time you give to this.

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