I cannot offer any software solution, however I faced the same problem, which I put down to poor design of the otherwise great expansion boards, they could have chosen any other spare gpio, in reality the i2c interupt that uses gpio4 is only used for (edge detection) this is when an input goes from HIGH to LOW (falling edge) or LOW to HIGH (rising edge) try google for explanation, in any case if your not using i2c edge detection in your programs then you can remove the jumper, your port expanders will still work fine, then to connect 1 wire ds18b20 sensors you need to intercept the GPIO4 connection before the connection to the quick2wire board.
Hope it Helps
Toshi Bass