The first thing that spring to mind is a break beam detector. They
usually consist of two parts, an IR emitter and a detector, and when
an object prevents the emitter's pulses being seen by the detector you
will get an output signal. There are more sophisticated ones that have
the emitter and detector in the same housing and use a reflector to
bounce the beam back. This type is common in security systems, but
probably a bit expensive for your requirements.
Maplin have a kit available for a tenner:
http://www.maplin.co.uk/p/mk120-ir-beam-break-detector-ll64u but you
can get something ready made from eBay for a bit less.
If you want to go really flashy then use a distance sensor above the
person's head, you could then adapt the show dependent on height (eg.
for kids) or go completely nuts and winch the whole drum up and down
so that eye level is in the right plane!
Nigle