nice machine that you have there.
I think you might have run into a long Garbage Collector pause, as you run Neo4j with 65GB heap it takes a while to do the full-stop garbage collection.
I would run Neo4j with at most 16GB heap here and rather configure the mmio settings in neo4j.properties to conform to your (expected) store sizes, esp. for nodestore and percentage-wise for rel-store and the property-stores.
013-12-22 16:45:25.635+0000 INFO [o.n.k.i.DiagnosticsManager]: Total Physical memory: 251.78 GB
2013-12-22 16:45:25.635+0000 INFO [o.n.k.i.DiagnosticsManager]: Free Physical memory: 198.02 GB
2013-12-22 16:45:25.635+0000 INFO [o.n.k.i.DiagnosticsManager]: Committed virtual memory: 734.69 GB
2013-12-22 16:45:25.635+0000 INFO [o.n.k.i.DiagnosticsManager]: Total swap space: 59.60 GB
2013-12-22 16:45:25.635+0000 INFO [o.n.k.i.DiagnosticsManager]: Free swap space: 59.60 GB
2013-12-22 16:45:25.636+0000 INFO [o.n.k.i.DiagnosticsManager]: JVM memory information:
2013-12-22 16:45:25.636+0000 INFO [o.n.k.i.DiagnosticsManager]: Free memory: 60.69 GB
2013-12-22 16:45:25.636+0000 INFO [o.n.k.i.DiagnosticsManager]: Total memory: 61.33 GB
2013-12-22 16:45:25.636+0000 INFO [o.n.k.i.DiagnosticsManager]: Max memory: 80.00 GB
2013-12-22 16:45:25.636+0000 INFO [o.n.k.i.DiagnosticsManager]: Garbage Collector: PS Scavenge: [PS Eden Space, PS Survivor Space]
2013-12-22 16:45:25.636+0000 INFO [o.n.k.i.DiagnosticsManager]: Garbage Collector: PS MarkSweep: [PS Eden Space, PS Survivor Space, PS Old Gen, PS Perm Gen]
2013-12-22 16:45:25.637+0000 INFO [o.n.k.i.DiagnosticsManager]: Memory Pool: Code Cache (Non-heap memory): committed=2.44 MB, used=912.69 kB, max=48.00 MB, threshold=0.00 B
2013-12-22 16:45:25.637+0000 INFO [o.n.k.i.DiagnosticsManager]: Memory Pool: PS Eden Space (Heap memory): committed=16.00 GB, used=655.36 MB, max=16.00 GB, threshold=?
2013-12-22 16:45:25.638+0000 INFO [o.n.k.i.DiagnosticsManager]: Memory Pool: PS Survivor Space (Heap memory): committed=2.67 GB, used=0.00 B, max=2.67 GB, threshold=?
2013-12-22 16:45:25.638+0000 INFO [o.n.k.i.DiagnosticsManager]: Memory Pool: PS Old Gen (Heap memory): committed=42.67 GB, used=0.00 B, max=384.00 GB, threshold=0.00 B
2013-12-22 16:45:25.638+0000 INFO [o.n.k.i.DiagnosticsManager]: Memory Pool: PS Perm Gen (Non-heap memory): committed=66.59 MB, used=18.02 MB, max=512.00 MB, threshold=0.00 B
You've got quite a lot of VM GC arguments, where did you get them from?
2013-12-22 16:45:25.640+0000 INFO [o.n.k.i.DiagnosticsManager]: VM Arguments: [-XX:+DisableExplicitGC, -Dorg.neo4j.server.properties=conf/neo4j-server.properties, -Djava.util.logging.config.file=conf/logging.properties, -Dlog4j.configuration=file:conf/log4j.properties, -XX:ParallelGCThreads=48, -XX:+UseParallelOldGC, -XX:+UseNUMA, -XX:-UseAdaptiveNUMAChunkSizing, -XX:+UseAdaptiveSizePolicy, -XX:+BindGCTaskThreadsToCPUs, -XX:+UseGCTaskAffinity, -XX:-UseLargePages, -XX:-UseCompressedOops, -XX:-ParallelRefProcEnabled, -XX:MaxPermSize=512m, -Xms65536m, -Xmx65536m, -Dneo4j.home=/home/lokesh/code/neo4j-community-2.0.0, -Dneo4j.instance=/home/lokesh/code/neo4j-community-2.0.0, -Dfile.encoding=UTF-8]
I would probably go with just CMS for the time being.
I continue to investigate but cannot promise too much over the holidays.
Michael