Performance IQ: 151
Verbal IQ: 156
Full IQ: 160
What do these scores mean?
This was an entrance test for a private school for gifted children.
However, she was not accepted because the school felt she was not
ready for peer interactions. As parents we have always known that she
is very special; her development is unique. She is extremely bright:
reads at three and an half, plays her little piano all by herself, and
never forgets anything! She is very interested in socializing with
adults, but not children! She will not play slide whenever other
children are on it, fearing other children might push her and she will
get hurt. Anyway, she is very bright and challenging. We are very
concerned that she may never be interested in playing with children of
her own age. Is there anything we could do to help? Again, if she
cannot pass the private school social-emotional screening, then she
will have to attend our neighborhood school, which has no gifted
program. We are concerned she may be bored if she is so much advanced
in class. Any help are appreciated.
Thanks.
Yan
(we live in San Francisco Bay Area, California)
> never forgets anything! She is very interested in socializing with
> adults, but not children! She will not play slide whenever other
As a kid, I socialized with only a very small segment of the kids at school,
but did well with most adults. I learned social skills from my
parents, who were adults.
> children are on it, fearing other children might push her and she will
> get hurt. Anyway, she is very bright and challenging. We are very
I have a scar on my lower lip.
> concerned that she may never be interested in playing with children of
> her own age. Is there anything we could do to help? Again, if she
> cannot pass the private school social-emotional screening, then she
> will have to attend our neighborhood school, which has no gifted
What are these tests like?
IQ of 160, assuming the typical variance of 256, means an IQ of 1 in 11310.
Lots of information on the WPPSI-Revised at:
http://www.nswagtc.org.au/info/identification/WPPSIR.html
The Buros Institute reviews tests at:
http://www.unl.edu/buros/
> This was an entrance test for a private school for gifted children.
> However, she was not accepted because the school felt she was not
> ready for peer interactions. As parents we have always known that she
Why do you want your daughter in the care of someone else at four years?
> is very special; her development is unique. She is extremely bright:
> reads at three and an half, plays her little piano all by herself, and
> never forgets anything! She is very interested in socializing with
> adults, but not children! She will not play slide whenever other
My son lectured my coworkers about canopical jars at four. Aren't kids
cute? After a while you just give up hoping your kids will do normal
things.
> children are on it, fearing other children might push her and she will
> get hurt. Anyway, she is very bright and challenging. We are very
> concerned that she may never be interested in playing with children of
> her own age. Is there anything we could do to help? Again, if she
What alternatives do you see? What would you want someone to do for (to)
you if you were in your daughter's place? It is my opinion only, but four
years old is way too early to worry about whether she has friends her own
age.
> cannot pass the private school social-emotional screening, then she
> will have to attend our neighborhood school, which has no gifted
> program. We are concerned she may be bored if she is so much advanced
> in class. Any help are appreciated.
There is always homeschooling, unless that is not allowed in California.
On 28 May 2002 15:28:30 -0500, yan...@speakeasy.net (Yan Lange)
wrote:
We knew her fear was valid: she knows well what she is able to do or
not. She has a "adult's brain" but a "child's body". We are glad she
is bright, but the teachers of the private school thought she is not
"social-emotional ready" for the pre-school.
>
> > concerned that she may never be interested in playing with children of
> > her own age. Is there anything we could do to help? Again, if she
> > cannot pass the private school social-emotional screening, then she
> > will have to attend our neighborhood school, which has no gifted
>
> What are these tests like?
It's about one and an half hours playgroup interview. About 15
applicants were put together with teachers. The activities were
classroom-like, in doors and out doors.
Thanks.
Yan
Thanks.
>
> > This was an entrance test for a private school for gifted children.
> > However, she was not accepted because the school felt she was not
> > ready for peer interactions. As parents we have always known that she
>
> Why do you want your daughter in the care of someone else at four years?
My daughter wanted to go to the preschool. I have been with her since
she was born, and have been taking her to music, art and dance classes
every week so she can have some fun. She had been very happy with the
arrangement. About three months ago she asked us to let her play in
the preschool. She came out of her little shell! She became very
social - with teachers or grownups, and she became interested in other
children also, but not to the level to play together. So we enrolled
her into the preschool in our neighborhood, and applied for the
private school for gifted children also. We know she is very bright,
so we would like to enroll her into a school specialized in this field
so at least the teachers will understand the gifted children better.
She is very happy attending her preschool(twice a week, three hours in
the morning).
>
> > is very special; her development is unique. She is extremely bright:
> > reads at three and an half, plays her little piano all by herself, and
> > never forgets anything! She is very interested in socializing with
> > adults, but not children! She will not play slide whenever other
>
> My son lectured my coworkers about canopical jars at four. Aren't kids
> cute? After a while you just give up hoping your kids will do normal
> things.
>
> > children are on it, fearing other children might push her and she will
> > get hurt. Anyway, she is very bright and challenging. We are very
> > concerned that she may never be interested in playing with children of
> > her own age. Is there anything we could do to help? Again, if she
>
> What alternatives do you see? What would you want someone to do for (to)
> you if you were in your daughter's place? It is my opinion only, but four
> years old is way too early to worry about whether she has friends her own
> age.
>
> > cannot pass the private school social-emotional screening, then she
> > will have to attend our neighborhood school, which has no gifted
> > program. We are concerned she may be bored if she is so much advanced
> > in class. Any help are appreciated.
>
> There is always homeschooling, unless that is not allowed in California.
Well, I don't think homeschooling is an option for me. I was born and
raised in China, coming to this country only after I graduated from a
graduated school. Although I have a Masters Degree in Computer
Science, and was graduated from the most prestigeous school in China,
I am not capable of teaching my daughter English among many other
aspects.
Thanks.
Yan
Four years old is young to start school, even with the IQ your daughter has.
(You didn't say whether it was preschool or kindergarten, so I'm guessing it is
kindergarten) (To give you a little comparison, Einstein had an IQ of about
140.)
Many parents make the mistake of starting their children too early for school.
The success of children in school is not limited to theri intelectuall
abilities, but even more important is their emotional readiness. Starting
children too early sets them up for failure because they enter into an
environment they are not ready for, and being socially ready is just as, if not
MORE important than intellectual capability. Instead of enrolling her in public
school, put off having her start it for another year, when her maturity level
will match what school will require of her.
Maturity levels play huge rolls in schools today. Lagging social development
is one of the most important factors today in assessing school readiness. It
isn't a coincidence that many children, having summer or fall birthdays,
younger than others, becocome problem learners.
Kindergarteners today memorize poetry and keep journals, it isn't like when us
parents went to school and learned shapes, colors, pasting and tying our shoes.
Homework for kindergarteners lasting over 2 hours is not unheard of. This is in
CA...
Some things to watch out for as far as social readiness for the task of
kindergarten are as follows: ALl of them are necessary for kindergarten
readiness.
1.) Enjoy playing with other children as well as alone
2.) Be able to leave parents and stay with another adult and/or group of
children
3.) Be willing to obey and follow directions given by adults.
4.) Respect rights and belongings of other children
5.) Be able to physially contain herself and keep hands to himself
6.) Understand the ideas of sharing and taking turns.
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> one though. We are happy to be together with our friends, but bored
> easily in many other social getherings. Are we social? It all
> depends on which group of people we are with. The lucky thing is that
> we do have a choice. It is so good to be grown-ups.
Are you in mensa? Those folks can be lots of fun to hang
out with.
My daughter is only four, so precious. I will work very hard to let
her have a happy childhood. It won't be easy, being gifted. Hard to
change people's opinions, only hope she will be lucky next year.
Thanks.
Yan Lange
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Though I do not have children as a Mensan I know what you mean about being
social. I have only two life long friends and I too get bored easily in
social situations. My problem is that my wife is of average or a little
above average in intelligence and enjoys social gatherings of which there is
many where she works in real estate. Every week there is a bank or mortgage
company hosting a party for the real estate agents not to mention the
frequent get together with other Century 21 agents. At first I used to go
with her but I was always accused of having a bored look on my face; maybe
because I was bored you think?. Then it became because I thought I was
better than everyone else so I did not enjoy their company. What she fails
to realize is that aside from the fact that 80% of the conversations pertain
to her business or who they know in their business, the other 20% is a bunch
of mis-facts, conjecture and popular beliefs that are unsubstantiated. I am
constantly amazed at how people can read an article and come away with the
wrong impression of what was being said. I have found that many people
simply read the first few lines and then form their opinions.
This caused some conflict between us. I want to be a good husband and I have
to recognize her needs also. My solution sad to say was to take a
tranquilizer before such events, have a drink or two and then I actually
have fun. In this way I do not get upset or bothered when people say things
that are blatantly wrong or of no interest.
Sorry for the detour but your comments about being social hit home.
> to recognize her needs also. My solution sad to say was to take a
> tranquilizer before such events, have a drink or two and then I actually
> have fun. In this way I do not get upset or bothered when people say things
> that are blatantly wrong or of no interest.
SCNR but this just fits too well:
An intelligent man is sometimes forced to be drunk to spend time with his
friends. -- Ernest Hemingway
Regards,
Georg
Yvette
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