Hi Santiago, right place, no dumb question at all.
There are several settings currently unavailable in the Solr Search module that could be of use(see also the TODO.txt file), but this is also an opportunity to contribute to the community by implementing some of them, or if you can't, by opening a JIRA Ticket describing this need.
Basically you would need to add a "sort type" form field in the facet field configuration(islandora_solr_admin_settings_facet_fields), make sure this setting is added (look at the defaults) and then read/used by the query.
Also, quick fix for your local use is implementing your own hook_islandora_solr_query_alter($islandora_solr_query) and adding your facet ordering (like in Solr's documentation) to $islandora_solr_query->solrParams. Ideally by making some checks of course (like if the facet field really exists, etc).
Best
Diego