> Is it not exclusive to disallow people to use the mannerisms they possess?
It would be exclusive to dismiss an individual with Tourette syndrome who is literally incapable of avoiding potentially offensive language. Outside of that sort of condition, mannerisms are a choice, thus being excluded because of them is a choice.
> Why should that mean I don't get to use it?
Do you truly believe there is no reason to ever moderate what you say or how you say it? This isn't a casual gathering among friends, this is a global organization with a potential audience of literally anyone online. How much of that audience is it acceptable to alienate to make room for COCk jokes?
It comes down to this:
"You are not welcome because of how you choose to conduct yourself."
"You are not welcome because of who you are as a person."
Unfortunately, no one quite agrees with what is and is not "choice," thus the problem of the CoC. Interesting perspective to consider: The Moral Landscape by Sam Harris. I would disagree with him about some things, but I found his book quite interesting.
Code and state is all we are. Just like any other system of code and state, when both the code and state are completely understood, behavior and response to inputs can reliably and repeatably be predicted.
For example, the input of this thread (along with any other relevant environmental parameters), to the code that is me, with the current internal state that I have, will, for some reason, always result in my responding to the thread.
When you attempt to change the behavior of others, you are actually attempting to change either the code of that person, or manipulate the internal state such that the code behaves differently.
We don’t like to believe this, though. We like to believe we are special, that morals are a universal constant, etc., but we believe these things because nature has selected those traits in us…because believing those things has offered a survival advantage for our species.
Personally, I’m not crazy about saying “if you have one set of genes, then I will allow you to be yourself, however, if you have another set of genes then you must try to be more like me”. That said, some balance of behaviors has to be agreed upon for any group that reaches a certain size, and I am not in any kind of position of power or influence in this community to say what that balance should be.
Stachu, interesting point in the book is that all our behaviors are predictive scientifically, even though that isn't yet proven. This, morals are real and embedded in our DNA, etc. At least, that is how I understood the premise.
Hi Jacqueline,
I don’t want to enflame this situation any further but I do want to briefly reply. Obviously this is something that you feel passionately about. But there are people who are affected by this, and there have been cases of strong abuse being directed at individuals in the past. Perhaps you are not aware of those incidents.
All I can say is that whilst a CoC is not something that I was personally crying out for before it was announced, it doesn’t affect me on a day-to-day basis and I think it is a positive thing for a number of people that have been affected by negative incidents in the community.
Also – note that this CoC is simply on a single repo, the Visual FSharp language repo. It doesn’t apply elsewhere. So if you’re not planning on working on the compiler any time soon, there’s probably no need to worry about this. There’s another one on the F# Foundation I believe, so if you were to join the foundation you would need to agree to that CoC (perhaps someone from the foundation can elaborate on this point).
Cheers
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Hello everyone,
I think the possible views on the topic have been already well presented in this discussion and thanks to everyone for expressing their views.
The original announcement from Bryan includes links for people who are not willing to work in an environment with a Code of Conduct and I think that it also provides the best place for follow-up conversation. The site has a thread on this (https://voat.co/v/fsharp/comments/739380) and I think that’s a perfect place for anyone with more concerns and things to share, but I would prefer to keep this mailing list for more technical discussions.
Thanks,