Gene Wirchenko wrote:
> On Sat, 8 Dec 2012 11:49:57 +0000 (UTC), Arthur Ward
> <art....@noreply.xx> wrote:
>
>>Are you suggesting that I should feign "respect" when it is my sincere
>>position that the OP and his defenders are not just wrong, but lazy and
>>arrogant?
>
> No, actually show it.
Respect is to show deference, esteem or honor. If none of those have
been earned, or they've been lost, showing respect is feigning it.
Pretending. Lying.
> As I like to say, it is one thing to disagree, but quite another
> to be disagreeable.
Irrelevant, though true.
>>What kind of respect is it when it is only pretended? How much can you
>>value someone's apparent respect for you if you always have to wonder if
>>they are faking it?
>
> Well, at least, they have some courtesy.
You debase the concept of courtesy. False courtesy is fawning.
>>One can, but in the case of EAV it is an idea that has been
>>comprehensively shown to be wrong-headed so many times, in so many ways
>>that it is a public good to cut across it to save everyone a lot
>>of time. It does no one any favors to show the idea respect it
>>doesn't deserve and to drag the whole weary argument out with elaborate
>>courtesies just to save the feelings of someone selling snake-oil.
>
> Ah, but if you are trying to get people to see that they might be
> mistaken, your approach is very unlikely to work.
I am under no illusion that I will ever help the OP. I am heckling.
All I want to do is raise awareness so that perhaps one or two other
people wonder why anyone would get so bent out of shape about EAV and
look into it a bit more carefully. I am trying to deny the OP a free
ride here.
>>No they are not, and a moment's reflection should reveal countless
>>examples of why that is just trite sentiment. How do you feel about
>>people who promote fake cancer cures?
>
> That they are criminal. That is a legal matter. Manners are
> not.
Irrelevant, though true. Address the argument.
>>There is being mistaken, which is forgiveable and which deserves patient
>>correction, and then there is lazy but arrogant, which deserves a
>>figurative smack up the side of the head.
>
> Why give such so much attention?
To deny lazy egotists the free ride they seem to expect.
>>Everyone is entitled to honesty. Sometimes its most beneficial when its
>>bare-knuckle honesty. Giving someone a wake-up call shows respect.
>>Encouraging them to remain deluded, with sugar-coated euphemisms does
>>not.
>
> I very much disagree with you, but in this post, I have not
> insulted you.
I am sure both you and Robert will agree I've not insulted you either.
In fact I have treated you both with a degree of respect. You can
properly value that because you know I don't fake it. Sadly I wonder if
both you and Robert think I am a shit. I can't trust either of you
because you've both told me people should lie about that sort of
thing.
> It is possible to make a strong point without being rude.
Irrelevant and glib, but true.
Art