Yeh, motor speed isn't an issue. There were a large variety of gear ratios, and I can always slow it down with some sort of PWM. I picked that specific gearing based on the torque and speed achieved (about 1.5 rev/sec) which I totally guessed would be somewhat appropriate. Switching out the motor wouldn't be hard, and I'll only order one set of parts initially while I troubleshoot.
I need actual lead screws and nuts though, not just a threaded rod and nut. The nut needs to travel freely when the screw spins, possibly assisted by some sort of track, so that it travels up and down the length of the screw. Usually they cut the threads in a specific profile to help achieve this, for example I have seen trapezoidal and circular, and the nut is slightly looser than a standard nut to fit that diameter screw.
I'm open to suggestions for different motors and such, but overall I need to fit 5 of these adjacent to each other in a space the size of a forearm... so the smaller things are, the better off I'll be fitting it all in there. Also, we have to think about weight, so the smaller the metal parts are, the less weight we add to the arm. I could consider trying to model and 3D print them...