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The problem with phones now is not “calling too much” but “texting” too much.” Some people can’t imagine how it can become annoying or bothersome, but it can become both of these things. Sure you can ignore texts a tad easier than phone calls. But maybe your guy has something pending. Maybe he’s waiting for an important text from work with important info and you keep interrupting with your texts that although “cute,” are starting to become somewhat of a problem.
How do you know if your texting your guy too much? Well, I personally like my guy to be straight up and tell me what’s bothering him and he has no problem telling me. But not all guys are like that, because they don’t want to upset you.
Here are some things that are okay and some that aren’t when you’re texting:
Don’ts:
- Don’t text your boyfriend/husband while he’s working to let him in on the latest gossip about your crazy girlfriend.
-Don’t text him about his own “business,” giving him unwanted advice and such. Instead do this the night before when it doesn’t feel as intrusive.
-Don’t text him because you’re mad at the kids and there’s chaos at home. More likely than not it’s chaotic where he’s at. Wait until he gets home and then you can both unload on each other.
-Text with a specific a specific purposes. Don’t text him with “OMG” this or that. Men don’t really understand that and don’t really see the point in it.
Dos:
-Do text your guy if there’s a legitimate emergency such as a medical emergency.
-Do test your gut once a day and just say “I love you.”
-Text him if something incredible has happened either at work or at home. Like a big accomplishment like with the kids or big job promotion. They like to hear about these type of things since they like to share their accomplishments with you, too.
-If he’s your boyfriend and you’ve been sleeping for the past few nights together but now you’re not, be sure to text him “Good Night.” He’ll love it, it’s simple and to the point and it shows that you miss having him by your side.
-Text him if he forgets something at home and he’s still close by so can hurry back home and scoop it up. He’ll be eternally grateful.
So here are a few tips of texting dos and don’ts, they’re left kind of vague, but you should be able to get the picture. Basically, don’t text him while at work with nonsense or things that can wait. Do text him with valid points that he would want to know and text with short and endearing messages.