I just got a letter from Pamela Clatworthy's daughter, telling me that
her mother had died. Pam was in her late eighties or early nineties, I
believe.
Pamela Clatworthy was the only child of famed actress and singer
Gertrude Lawrence, and had a very interesting childhood, divided
between exclusive private schools in England, where she spent about
half her time, and a suite at the Plaza Hotel in New York, where she
lived whenever her mother was in a play that had a long Broadway run.
When I knew Pam she was in her seventies and eighties, and was the
eccentric elderly English nanny to a motherless family who lived down
the street from me. The kids were being single-parented by a hard
working dad, and Pam came into residence to do light housekeeping, look
after the young ones, and "be there" when they got home from school.
She was a painter, a poet and a free spirit who, to celebrate her 80th
birthday, sailed around the world -- as a working crew member on a
boat!
I don't know her exact date of death; her daughter's letter didn't say,
but I did worry when I got no reply to my Christmas card this past
December. She was always very good about sending cards and letters.
In most biographies of Gertrude Lawrence there is a school photo of
Pam, taken when she was about twelve. She always hated that picture!
Said it made her look "a right twit," but I thought she looked lovely.
She was a good friend and will be missed.
In addition to her daughter Sarah, Pam is survived by her son, jazz
musician Benn Clatworthy.