It's hard to believe that she has been gone since 1989. I absolutely still
love her 1980 video: "Gilda: Live in New York".
- nilita
Zevon. A few months ago, I was searching pollstar.com for acts my
kids were interested in, and I typed his name in. When my kids asked
"What was THAT about?" I just said, "I'm still in denial."
Also Phil Hartman, just about every time I watch "The Simpsons."
And Madeline Kahn.
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>In the previous article, La N <nilita20...@yahoo.com> wrote:
>> In a discussion elsewhere, someone quoted Gilda Radner, and - lo and
>> behold - a little tear came to my eye ... :(.
>>
>> It's hard to believe that she has been gone since 1989. I
>> absolutely still love her 1980 video: "Gilda: Live in New York".
>Zevon. A few months ago, I was searching pollstar.com for acts my
>kids were interested in, and I typed his name in. When my kids asked
>"What was THAT about?" I just said, "I'm still in denial."
>Also Phil Hartman, just about every time I watch "The Simpsons."
>And Madeline Kahn.
Harry Chapin.
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kdm
peace 'n oranges...
Charles Schulz.
Believe it or not, I didn't know too much about Zevon until I watched a
documentary of his life (and dying) made in 2003 and thought - shit - how
come I hadn't been paying better attention to him? .. :( Anyway, it was a
wonderful film. He demonstrated no self-pity; and even though you knew he
was going to die, you were rooting for him to hang in there.
- nilita
Steve Goodman.
Loki
"I'm honored to shake the hand of a brave Iraqi
citizen who had his hand cut off by Saddam Hussein."
宥eorge W. Bush, Washington, D.C., May 25, 2004
Steve Allen.
Nell
Cary Grant
Audrey Hepburn
Katharine Hepburn
Richard Farina
Louis Nye
Jackie Gleeson
Jack Benny
Dudley Moore
Peter Cook
Spike Millligan
Richard Pryor
Nigel Hawthorn
Ian Richardson
Sammy Davis Jr
Dean Martin
to name a few ...
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I miss
Lady Diana
Walt Disney (era)
more recordings of Roy Orbison's voice
John Denver
Staying up late to watch Johnny Carson
JFK
more Alfred Hitchcock and Selznik movies
John Lennon and The Beatles, the Mamas and the Papas, Motown
Steve Irwin
the damaged Christopher Reeve
high profile murder trials of Laci Peterson, JonBenet, Ron Goldman,
Chandra Levy, Nicole Brown Simpson
Ayalih, Selena and Patsy Cline
that goofy Anna Nicole
Michael Jackson as a kid in the Jackson 5
All of the old Saturday night Live people that have died, Gilda,
Belushi, etc.
Elizabeth Montgomery and watching Bewitched
Cary Grant, Jimmy Stewart
Lucy, Mister Rogers
Nobody can do those voices like Mel Blanc did those voices
Julia Childs
men who remove their caps in restaurants
Karen
The yin to Zevon's yang, Harry Nilsson....
And Isaac Asimov....r
--
What good is being an executive if you never get to execute anyone?
...and lots of great actors, entertainers, musicians that we don't get to
see anymore because they are, thankfully, still OT but 'retired'.
Brian Jones.
My father.
Gilda
Richard Harris
J.T. Walsh
Randy Rhoads
Alec Guinness
River Phoenix
Frank Whittemore (my most beloved mentor and neighbor)
Tammy Linford (my best friend of childhood)
Warren Zevon
And, yeah--Heath Ledger, dammit
John Lennon
George Harrison
Ricky Nelson (has it been THAT long????)
Kathy Wajerski
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Someone the other day asked if I still miss my mother, which I said I
didm, and then she added that she did not miss her mother so much
anymore.
I wonder if that will happen ever to me?
Karen
I don't miss people I never knew in the same way I miss people I've
known.
I never met Heath Ledger. While I'm saddened more by his death than
the average celebrity, I'll never really miss him. I can always pop
in a DVD or something. That's as close to him as I've ever been.
But I can't pop in a DVD, say of my friend Monty or Lan or Joe or my
mother-in-law Betty or any of my other relatives. I can look at their
pictures, but I miss talking to them.
Laurie
Good points!
I don't know why Heath Ledger's death hits home so hard. It's just an
actor that I don't know at all. I really think it's because of the
character he played in Brokeback. It makes me sad to think of that
story...
Karen
This is a good point. I think a lot of people, well myself anyway, when we
miss a celeb from another time, it has much to do with our emotional and
experiential memories of those days. I miss The 3 Stooges, for instance,
because I am reminded of the innocence of my childhood when I would sit
right in front of the little B&W TV set and laugh like crazy. Gilda Radner?
Great SNL days and fun times in my life.
- nilita
Gary Cooper.
Jim Beaver
So help me, Tiny Tim.
Ok, now I'm sad.
Stacia
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>Someone the other day asked if I still miss my mother, which I said I
>didm, and then she added that she did not miss her mother so much
>anymore.
>I wonder if that will happen ever to me?
Karen, I'm sorry to hear about your mom. I also wonder if I'll ever
stop thinking about calling my mom or talking to her about silly stuff,
and I assume I will, but it's going to take a while.
Stacia
You gradually get used to that kind of loss. The hard edges are worn
down with time. It never goes completely away, though.
My father's been dead for fifteen years. I'm used to the idea by now,
of course, but I've been thinking more and more about how much he would
have enjoyed this election year. I would have enjoyed fighting with
him about it, and he would have enjoyed it just as much.
Is that a telling point about how you treat others while you are alive?
No getting away from that result!
Phil Hartman
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Father_Ted
Sarns
I had this discussion over the last couple of weeks due to the death of Sir
Edmund Hillary. News reports wax on about a loved Kiwi and how he'll be
missed etc. I had respect for him but not love. Journos get so seriously
screwed up with the word love. It irritates the hell out of me really
> But I can't pop in a DVD, say of my friend Monty or Lan or Joe or my
> mother-in-law Betty or any of my other relatives. I can look at their
> pictures, but I miss talking to them.
Yes i'm hearing you. The film visual, aural thing is so tremendously
impacting isn't it compared to a photo.
I have some relatives that have died on home videotapes and when you see
them and hear them it's like WHAMMO they are there...whereas a photo is nice
but there is no ... 'realism' with it...like being able to see quirky
mannerisms or hear the deceased laugh or just chatter away.
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Cheers,
Sarndra, Auckland, New Zealand
www.sarndra.com
A man finds room in the few square inches
of the face for the traits of all his ancestors;
for the expression of all his history, and his
wants.
~Ralph Waldo Emerson ~
No i think the 'rawness' of the death goes... acceptance begins to take
over. Took me years to come to terms with a stillbirth i had and now it's
more like soft memories and acceptance and he's thought about often.
Death is inevitable and we should all think about how we will feel when a
certain person dies to make the most of them while they are alive :-) Mum
had a pacemaker 4 years ago after nearly dying of a heart attack the same
day...even though we are very very close and always said as a matter of
course 'I love you', we are even closer and every day is such a bonus.
[Goes for both my parents].
I think you missed my point, unless your stillbirth said "you'll never
amount to anything, you're a big feckin' disappointment so why don't you
top yourself."
I've put the statement from the previous OP below. Remember, the
mother's mother is the grandmother, not the daughter.
>>> Someone the other day asked if I still miss my mother, which I said I
>>> didm, and then she added that she did not miss her mother so much
>>> anymore.
From the older generation, being loving and close was a luxury. To be
scolded (and maybe beaten with the birch) was to be noticed. For many,
a hug from that time was something that kids would envy as they heard of
child Nazi's getting from their parents. You had one toy to play with
on Sunday and were not to speak a word.
Would you miss a grandparent that much, assuming that they were of that
type and not the maverick Grandparents who had lived by "listen to your
children and grandchildren as they are a gift from God and the result of
love" ?
Two that usually choke me up are Freddy Mercury and Phil Hartman.
Of those five I've only meet Keith Moon and spent a memorable half an
hour or so sitting, smoking and talking beside a swimming pool at a
raucous Hollywood party one cold, winter's night back in the
mid-sixties.
I had no idea who he was until after he'd left to rejoin his fellow
bandmates inside. It was one of the deepest, funniest and most
enjoyable conversations I've ever had with a complete stranger and
I've often missed not having the opportunity of enjoying another
tête-à-tête.
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On the other hand, I think about how upset my parents would
have been by 9/11 and its aftermath. And my sister and I
just talked about how distraught our mother would have been
dealing with our recent illnesses. It's far better that
she'll never know.
So for me, for obvious reasons....
Francois Truffaut
John Cassavetes
Sure he can...as a spiritual role model....r
And his legacy lives on by way of his daughter Tulip and all her kids:
http://tinytim.org/family/index.html
aaaaaawwwwww ... cute ......
- nil
Deadwood. Todd S.
Curly
Larry
Moe
Shemp
Hugh Herbert
Vera Vague (look her up in the Columbia shorts)
Leon Errol
I totally agree. I've always been sad when someone whose work I
really enjoyed and respected a lot dies young, but for some reason
Heath's death is hitting me harder than others. Two things are making
me feel a little bit better about it - Ennis is finally in heaven with
Jack Twist and Heath will always be a guardian angel for his beautiful
daughter and will always be with her, something he couldn't do in
life. The first one might be a little wierd, but so what? :)
I don't really "miss" celebrities unless I knew them. There are some whom I
would have liked to see or hear more of, but I don't miss people I never
met.
I do, however, miss my daughter, my grandmother, many friends ... and Maggie
Funk, who was one of many art teachers I had. She was a Lesbian-American
... and she was the best.
John Lennon
George Harrison
Groucho Marx
Jimi Hendrix
John Candy
Jimmy Durante
Louis Armstrong
Nat King Cole
Jimmy Stewart
Marilyn Monroe
Jackie Gleason
John Belushi
Gilda Radner
Laurel & Hardy
Abbott & Costello
Ed Sullivan
Don Knotts
Janis Joplin
Jim Morrison
All of my grandparents
Several old friends and classmates
Your daughter? I don't think anything compares in a painful way to losing a
child. Talking about missing "movie stars" is sappy in comparison.
- nilita
Not so much...but Timothy Leary, yes....
And for (oddly enough) much the same reasons, Ish Kabibble....r
*THURRP* i knew someone would do that :D
[snip]
Sarns
> Carl Sagan
Now, this one hits home inasmuch as I'm a survivor the rare bone marrow
cancer that killed him. Ironically, I was always one of Sagan's fans.
- nilita
> Sammy, Dean and Frank
>
A couple years ago when I was working out in the gym with some older women,
we were talking about old movies and such. I mentioned how I missed The Rat
Pack, and they were horrified! They reminded me that those men behaved
badly and treated women like pieces of meat. I had to do some digging to
remind myself why I liked The Rat Pack.
Anyway, FWIW, the January 2008 edition of Vanity Fair had a great article on
Angie Dickinson. I don't know what made me think of that except that she
was a "broad" much accepted in the aforementioned "pack".
- nilita, looking forward to the end of winter ......
Been pondering this thread, pretty much all the names submitted so far, a
few others - Roy Orbison, Doug Sahm, Janis Joplin, Waylon Jennings among
Texas musicians for example.
An easier question for me would have been 'Who don't or won't you ever
miss?'
I have an idea of my own, but that person is still alive ... :)
- nilita
You look at the way women are routinely treated in rap videos, and it
makes the Rat Pack look like Choir boys by comparison.
Indeed. The current crop makes me long for the "bad" good ole days.
- nilita
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"Apairateef" <arf...@flipflop.com> wrote in message
news:479a62a3$1...@news01.wxnz.net...
> Dermot Morgan. Lead actor in Father Ted. Damn i miss that humour!
>
> http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Father_Ted
>
> Sarns
That show was so funny. I didn't realize he was dead though. He was so
young.
Kathy Wajerski
The answer to that is the same as it's always been: Richard Nixon....r
...nope...South Dike-ota...
He was...45. Heart attack. Hell i can't believe its been just on 10 years!
http://news.bbc.co.uk/1/hi/uk/61112.stm
http://www.imdb.com/name/nm0604607/
Gooo on have a cuppa teaa..just one more ;-)
Sarns
For some reason I'm reminded of a National Lampoon with a letter supposedly
written by "Marlo Thomas, Lebanese Thespian"....r
John Lennon
Steve Goodman
Laura Nyro
Gilda Radner
Robert Kennedy
but no matter where I am or what I'm doing, whenever I think of either of my
two dearly departed cats, I can't help but shed a few tears.
_____
Ellen in NYC
>
>"La N" <nilita20...@yahoo.com> wrote in message
>news:mVzmj.28569$yQ1.17716@edtnps89...
>>
>
>Been pondering this thread, pretty much all the names submitted so far, a
>few others - Roy Orbison, Doug Sahm, Janis Joplin, Waylon Jennings among
>Texas musicians for example.
And so far I've been thinking, "Undecided.", but your response sparked one for
me....Stevie Ray Vaughan! Aside (far aside) from John Lennon, and maybe Jimi
Hendrix, he's a musician that I miss.
>An easier question for me would have been 'Who don't or won't you ever
>miss?'
That neighbor (on topic) who complained once about my dog barking at 2 a.m. 20
years ago. (It was only one night, there wasn't really anything I could do
about, and he was really being an asshole. :-)
--
John M.
Johnny Carson
George Burns
Bob Hope
Dean Martin
Sammy Davis Jr.
Ed Sullivan
Milton Berle
Jack Benny
Red Skelton
Peter Jennings. As much as I've settled in with Charles Gibson, the nightly
news just hasn't been the same without him. His death had enough of an
impact on me that I stopped smoking after he died.
And Alison Steele, a dj here in NYC at a time when music radio was still
interesting. That was the last time I heard Tangerine Dream over the air
waves.
_____
Ellen in NYC
Wow! Then some good came of his demise! :)
Peter Jennings was born and raised in Canada. On my trips to the US, people
sometimes would say that I had a "Peter Jennings accent", which is weird
since we canucks don't tend to think we have accents.
- nilita
> x-no-archive: yes
>
> "R H Draney" <dado...@spamcop.net> wrote in message
> news:fnde8...@drn.newsguy.com...
>> Jim Beaver filted:
>>>
>>>
>>>Strother Martin.
>>>
>>>Gary Cooper.
>>
>> So help me, Tiny Tim.
>
> He can't help you now.
>
>
But you can still occasionally hear interviews with him on The Howard Stern
Show (usually on Fridays).
> On Jan 24, 10:07 pm, "La N" <nilita2004NOS...@yahoo.com> wrote:
>> In a discussion elsewhere, someone quoted Gilda Radner, and - lo and
>> behold - a little tear came to my eye ... :(.
>>
>> It's hard to believe that she has been gone since 1989. I absolutely
>> still love her 1980 video: "Gilda: Live in New York".
>>
>> - nilita
>
> Two that usually choke me up are Freddy Mercury and Phil Hartman.
>
Oddly enough, I was going to mention Freddy Mercury when I posted I missed
Phil Hartman, too. I guess we miss the great voices, eh?
> x-no-archive: yes
>
> "patterbear" <patte...@hotmail.com> wrote in message
> news:8ad9c3e0-2dc4-460f...@c23g2000hsa.googlegroups.com.
> ..
>> On Jan 25, 10:32 am, "Jim Beaver" <jumble...@prodigy.spam> wrote:
>>> Strother Martin.
>>>
>>> Gary Cooper.
>>>
>>> Jim Beaver
>>
>> Deadwood. Todd S.
>
> That is sweet to mention his late series.
> As with everything, there always comes a time when you
> have to
> move on...
>
>
Jim Beaver died???
On that scale, Freddie isn't dead at all. His voice goes on.
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AH
http://grapes2dot0.blogspot.com
The "Night Bird", I remember her well. I grew up on NYC FM radio in
the late 60s/early70s. alison was the first woman dj I ever heard.
My parents
Red Skelton
WARNING: KLEENEX ALERT
http://youtube.com/watch?v=jmHiHIy6pkY
- nilita
It's not THAT sexy! ;-)
Anyway, this one is more fitting as the now-deceased singer, Luther
Vandross shows up in the video with his daughter.
I know that song, love it, and have the album. However. I would be very
shocked indeed to hear that Luther Vandross had a daughter ... ;).
Anyway, here's someone(s) I miss. I have this album too.
http://youtube.com/watch?v=SmVAWKfJ4Go
- nilita