I woke up this morning to hear the news of his passing. I think I am older than him. I am not sure. A fine writer, his prose is uniquely his own. He signed a contract with the truth, not the one that always hurt.
I used to think he was a philosopher until I was told that he was more into literary studies.
What a great mind!
I was the one, based on his writings, who sought him out. I went in search of him, as I did with various others. I enjoy debates if they are conducted within a legitimate framework. Obodimma provided solid arguments, not ones from the conclave of lunatics
who operate in silos of enmity and envy. He could wear you down, but with the credibility of a dedicated scholar and not from a mind that seeks to destroy others.
He once asked me why I never did administration, and I told him my only commitment is to teach and research. He said, “in that case, I, too, will never be a Head of Department.” I lost contact with him for many years now, and I did not know how he ended his
options and choices. Wise people change their minds in relation to context and growth.
He also asked me where I got my big heart from when he saw me in front of UI Guest House drinking beer with someone who, as he told me, was always lying about me. My usual answer: this reflects him, not me. I can keep my values and character—I have no control
over those of others who have biases that prevent their emotional sustainability. A wise person hates no one.
He was a solid contributor to the USA-Africa Dialogue until he drifted away, as people do, letting others come and go, and the agenda shifted.
I no longer have Professor Nelson Fashina’s email address to include him in this short condolence. Please, this should be forwarded to him.
May His Soul Rest in Peace
TF