Sabotage
"From "Tightrope":
"After
a few years, I was a nightly blackout drinker. My lover drank heavily
as well, and I began to compare my drinking with his. I argued to
myself that I could not have a problem because his drinking was worse
than mine at times. In fact, I suggested that he might try A.A. When he
did try this Fellowship, I did all I could to undermine his efforts to
get sober his recovery would present an obvious, if unacknowledged,
threat to my drinking. Eventually, the stress became too much and we
broke up, but not before I had succeeded in undermining his recovery."
2001 AAWS, Inc., Fourth Edition; Alcoholics Anonymous, pg. 361