Thoughts For The Day~*~Belonging^*^*^ June 25
Transitions Daily
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Belonging
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"There is no more 'aloneness,' with that awful ache, so deep in the heart of every alcoholic that nothing, before, could ever reach it. That ache is gone and never need return again. Now there is a sense of belonging, of being wanted and needed and loved. In return for a bottle and a hangover, we have been given the Keys of the Kingdom."
1976 AAWS, Alcoholics Anonymous, p. 312
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Thought to Consider . . .
If I'm not comfortable within myself, I can't be comfortable with others.
*~*AACRONYMS*~*
A C T I O N = Any Change Toward Improving One's Nature
*~*^Just For Today!^*~*
"Following this spiritual path made a major difference in my life. It seemed to fill that lonely hole that I used to fill with alcohol. My self-esteem improved dramatically, and I knew happiness and serenity as I had never known it before. I started to see the beauty and usefulness in my own existence, and tried to express my gratitude through helping others in whatever ways I could. A confidence and faith entered my life and unraveled a plan for me that was bigger and better than I could have ever imagined.
"It wasn't easy, and it has
never been easy, but it gets so much better."
2001 AAWS, Inc., Fourth
Edition; Alcoholics Anonymous,
pgs. 287-88
*~*^Daily
Reflections^*~*
A TWO-WAY STREET
If we ask, God will certainly forgive our
derelictions. But in no case does He render us white as snow and keep us that
way without our cooperation.
TWELVE STEPS AND TWELVE TRADITIONS, p. 65
When I prayed, I used to omit a lot of things for which I needed
to be forgiven. I thought that if I didn't mention those things to God, He would
never know about them. I did not know that if I had just forgiven myself for
some of my past deeds, God would forgive me also. I was always taught to prepare
for the journey through life, never realizing until I came to A.A. when I
honestly became willing to be taught forgiveness and forgiving that life itself
is the journey. The journey of life is a very happy one, as long as I am willing
to accept change and responsibility.
Copyright 1990 ALCOHOLICS ANONYMOUS WORLD SERVICES,
INC.
Domination and Demand
The primary fact that we fail to recognize is our total inability to form a true partnership with another human being. Our egomania digs two disastrous pitfalls. Either we insist upon dominating the people we know, or we depend upon them far too much. If we lean too heavily on people, they will sooner or later fail us, for they are human, too, and cannot possibly meet our incessant demands. In this way our insecurity grows and festers. When we habitually try to manipulate others to our own willful desires, they revolt, and resist us heavily. Then we develop hurt feelings, a sense of persecution, and a desire to retaliate.
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My dependency meant demand--a demand for the possession and control of the people and the conditions surrounding me.
2. GRAPEVINE, JANUARY 1958
*~*^ Big Book Quote ^*~*
"Putting out of our minds the wrongs
others had done, we resolutely looked for our own mistakes. Where had we been
selfish, dishonest, self-seeking and frightened? Though a situation had not
been entirely our fault, we tried to disregard the other person involved
entirely. Where were we to blame? The inventory was ours, not the other
man's. When we saw our faults we listed them. We placed them before us
in black and white. We admitted our wrongs honestly and were willing
to set these matters straight."
~Alcoholics Anonymous, 4th Edition, How It Works, pg.
67~
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Four
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A.A. Thought For The Day
One of the most encouraging facts
of life is that your weakness can become your greatest asset. Kites and
airplanes rise against the wind. In climbing up a high mountain, we need
the stony crags and rough places to aid us in our climb. So your weakness
can become an asset if you will face it, examine it, and trace it to its
origin. Set it in the very center of your mind. No weakness, such as
drinking, ever turned into an asset until it was first fairly faced. Am I
making my weakness my greatest asset?
Meditation For The Day
Whenever we seek to worship God, we
think of the great universe that God rules over, of creation, of mighty law
and order throughout the universe. Then we feel the awe that precedes
worship. I too must feel awe, feel the desire to worship God in wondering
amazement. My mind is in a box of space and time and it is so made that I
cannot conceive of what is beyond space or time, the limitless and the
eternal. But I know that there must be something beyond space and time,
and that something must be the limitless and eternal Power behind the
universe. I also know that I can experience that Power in my life.
Prayer For The Day
I pray that I may accept the limitless and eternal
Spirit. I pray that It may express Itself in my
life.
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