Okay, I will try to explain more clearly.
1) I checked out the trunk (last revision before the partial commits of my merge started) into a new folder "test".
2) I started a folder compare of my "main" folder and the "test" folder in Beyond Compare.
3) In BC4, I copied all added files in my "main" folder to "test" and added them to the repo (no commit yet).
4) In BC4, I selected all remaining files *and* folders on the "test" side (the files are those that were deleted in "main", the folders were just shown as the files' parent folders on the right; the selection of the folders was wrong) and chose "SVN-delete" on them.
5) I got 8 "force removal" warnings on files that were not part of the selection (which confused me first: >I get "force removal" warnings for files I did not ask to delete), but I found that each of the warnings mentioned a file in one of the 8 folders that I selected. The folders however were *not* deleted in "main", so they still contained a lot of files, some of them modified, thus the warning, which is correct.
6) I clicked abort, but more "force removal" warnings were shown, which confused me again (>
But the "Cancel" in the lower right corner also abort for the current
file only. So I had to click through about 10 files one by one.<), until I noticed that each warning belongs to a file from a different folder.
I should not have written the first half of my post. I just wanted to show the way that I took to find the actual problem:
The behavior I expect is "the abort button should abort completely.
I hope this is clear now. If not, please let me know.