Thanks for your solution, it works great!
Here you see the usefullness of your work:
The given Tags "Aktuell" and "Q6" show me all Tiddlers, which have at least these tags.
Below the table with the matching Tiddlers, I can chose (or un-chose) the tags.

This is the working source (only for two tags, because the list is looooong.)
</table>
</$wikify>
<$fieldmangler>
<$list filter="[is[current]tag[KA01]]">
<$button class="button" message="tm-remove-tag" param="KA01">{{check}}<<tag KA01>></$button>
</$list>
<$list filter="[is[current]!tag[KA01]]">
<$button class="button" message="tm-add-tag" param="KA01"><<tag KA01>></$button>
</$list>
</$fieldmangler>
<$fieldmangler>
<$list filter="[is[current]tag[KA02]]">
<$button class="button" message="tm-remove-tag" param="KA02">{{check}}<<tag KA02>></$button>
</$list>
<$list filter="[is[current]!tag[KA02]]">
<$button class="button" message="tm-add-tag" param="KA02"><<tag KA02>></$button>
</$list>
</$fieldmangler>
Hope, that helps others which have a similar problem.
Again, thanks to all contributors!
Uwe
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