I'm not sure I understand the failure mechanics. In Thespian, the only way to get an actor address (from either an Actor or an external component talking to the ActorSystem) is via a `createActor` call, and any `send` or `ask` operations to that `createActor` before it has been created should be queued and sent once the Actor is running. Can you elaborate a little on the specifics of what is happening and where the error is coming from?
There is no way to send anything to the ActorSystem itself because the details of the system is implementation-specific so the only way to interact with it is via the ActorSystem API. A Thespian_StatusReq would be sent to the Actor you are wanting the status of anyhow and just return status information for that Actor (with references to its children so you could separately query them), so that doesn't provide the information you are looking for.