Richard, I called it The Horseshoe, I don't think its known by that though. It seems the shape to me, from my memory of it. I haven't viewed it in a long time.
Peter! Love the observing forms and sketches. Those are classic shaped planetaries. Interesting you viewed one from home, the other from Panoche. Where at Panoche - DARC? I also note that I haven't seen IC 418, its coincidentally the challenge target on Cloudy NIghts currently.
My faves tend to be with lots of dark and bright areas:
1. CatsEye, NGC 6543 - on best nights it has tons of inner and outer detail, well defined torus/shells, extended portions that are challenging.
2. Fetus, NGC 7008 - very rich detail and unusual dark/bright areas.
3. Little Dumbbell - M76 - tons of detail at wide range of magnification, filtered and not.
Hard to limit a "best" list - Eskimo, NGC 40 as you mention, Owl, all sorts of good targets. Tough Nuts? I still haven't picked out Campbells Hydrogen Star. Rich star fields are difficult.