Jay
Thanks for those words. I get it that work can poison the entire notion of being organized, and I TOTALLY get how escaping one's work-head-space is necessary for some people. It sounds like you've got something going that works great for you. Saturday was one goal (finish a 300k) and I spent essentially zero time thinking about that while I was on my ride. I had a 15 hour bike ride to bliss out on everything else. The fact I had a goal didn't get me to the end. The goal got me to the start. I very very rarely regret going on a ride when it's in progress, and almost never do I regret it when it's over, but in a totally unstructured format, devoid of any goals, the other demands and gentle requests of life, layered with my own intertia/laziness make it harder to begin things. Cycling is "my church". Goals help get me to church.
Take my front yard for example. We had a fair bit of work done, and it looks great. It rained all winter, and now Spring is coming and all the weeding and pruning needs to happen, and it's still cold. It is really easy for me to put it off in the moment. It's pretty clear to me I need a structure. Spend 90 minutes every Sunday out in the yard. If I want Sunday off, do it Saturday. If I did, I'd make a dent in the new growth.
The other thing I'm doing here is selfishly using the RBW Group. By just typing the words, "I intend to do activity X by date Y", that hacks my brain to make it happen. Lots of people have these unfettered aspirations "I'd like to learn an instrument", "I'd like to run a half-marathon", "Someday I'll ride a century". For some of those people, just picking a date and writing it down starts the ball rolling to actually taking the action to getting that big thing done. Some people write it down and put it in a safe place. I type it on RBW Groups. I forget sometimes how the huge majority of participants here are readers and not posters, and I apologize if I come off as a self-indulgent show-off. I do post a lot, but I try to post stuff that is helpful, or generally positive and/or adds to the balance of content. One thing I try to NEVER do. I never (o never intend to) tell anybody else what they should do. Typing my goals here, and then responding to those posts makes all of you my accountability buddies, and it helps me. Thanks to the RBWGroup for that.
I promise that there is absolutely no chance I will actually do my first 400k on April 13 unless I talk about it, a lot. :-)
BL in EC