Interesting, so 20 and especially 16 is on the very low side for 60s, and very supple-wall 60s at that.
And my teeth and arms were jarred last night out and back to church on said horse-hooves-pitted moisture-compacted even with the tires at 16. There are some days when one wishes to have the sand back. But 16 is noticeably better than 20 and I'll try it at the lower pressure for a while more.
Really, the only setup I've ridden that smoothed out washboard was an early CODA suspension seatpost paired with a Softride stem -- BSNYC recently made fun of these, but I liked mine better than my 1995 top o' line Manitou elastomer fork. The CODA/Softride combination felt like floating above the roughness. I'm sure modern suspension does even better.
I recall a few years ago riding with my brother on some old steep gravel logging roads in the Jemez mountains, not in a nature reserve, heavily washboarded. I was riding my Fargo with 700C x 60 Big Apples at 22 psi or so. Coming back downhill I'm sure we hit 40 mph despite the washboard, which was so severe that, very literally, my vision blurred, I had a hard time drawing breath, and I had a hard time holding on to the hoods.