I'm not quite sure what your point is, because there's a word missing
from the subject line. (Could it be "prevent"?)
There's an interesting discussion on this at qubes issues:
https://github.com/QubesOS/qubes-issues/issues/1118
If you don't make a change yourself the file wont be changed in the
sender qube. Saving a file in the disposableVM provides the yes/no
prompt you are asking about.
unman