Thanks Mike. The thread you point to, gives however, little information
on my problem: the described procedure (first start call, then connect)
does indeed work for jitsi and the laptop built-in camera (sometimes
even requiring a sys-usb reboot between two sessions), but the procedure
does not work for my external USB webcam. I planned to "abuse" from
this for its small size to have a look into some very narrow spaces in
my house, behind a drywall:).
Anyways, this timeout message is new to me and does not seem to have an
answer. By the way: the webcam runs smoothly in a std non-qubes debian
10. By which I conclude that it is not the camera itself that is buggy.
Rather something qubes-specific seems to mess. Cheers, Bernhard