Lord Saye and Sele, custodian of Broughton Castle and one of the first soldiers to enter Belsen – obituary
‘All I have to say is that if anyone ever denies the Holocaust, I’m very glad to stand up and tell them that I saw Belsen’
Nathaniel Fiennes, Lord Saye and Sele, who has died aged 103, was a land agent who devoted much of his energy to restoring and maintaining Broughton Castle, the beautiful moated medieval mansion near Banbury, Oxfordshire which had been in his family since 1377.
Known as Nat to family and friends, Lord Saye was 21st in a line that started in 1447. The first Lord Saye fought at Agincourt and was Treasurer of England before being beheaded in Jack Cade’s Rebellion of 1450 (“He can speak French; and therefore he is a traitor,” Shakespeare’s rebel explains in Henry VI Part 2).
Another ancestor, the 8th Lord Saye, was a key figure in the Parliamentarian opposition to King Charles I along with John Hampden and John Pym. Saye raised troops to fight against the king at the inconclusive Battle of Edgehill in 1642, and in retaliation Royalist troops occupied Broughton Castle from October 1642 to 1644. Charles I had nicknamed him “Old Subtlety” in the years preceding the Civil War. After it, Lord Saye promoted a middle way and opposed the King’s execution. He was pardoned by Charles II and died in 1662.
The wider family now includes the actor brothers Ralph (The English Patient) and Joseph Fiennes (Shakespeare in Love) and the explorer Sir Ranulph Fiennes.
Broughton Castle became the family seat in 1448, when William Fiennes, 2nd Baron Saye and Sele, married a descendant of William of Wykeham, Bishop of Winchester and founder of Winchester College and New College, Oxford, who had bought the house in 1377.
In the 1550s, under Elizabeth I, the family modernised Wykeham’s manor house, built in the early 1300s, after which, apart from the addition of plaster ceilings in the 18th century, it remained almost unchanged. Broughton Castle is therefore a prime example of a late medieval mansion, enhanced by Tudor architects but unspoiled by any later alterations. James Lees-Milne described it as “the most romantic house imaginable. English to the core.”
The Fiennes family (which extended the name to Twisleton-Wykeham-Fiennes in the mid-19th century) were well off but never hugely wealthy. Much of what they did have in land and money was dissipated by the colourful 15th Baron (known as “The Regency Buck”) who by 1847 had gambled and drunk his way through most of the family fortune, even selling the swans from the Castle moat. Most of the rest was lost by the horse-racing extravagances of the 17th Baron in the late 19th Century….
Lord Saye was realistic about the place of the aristocracy in the modern world. He did not attend the House of Lords, needing a full-time job to help with Broughton’s costs, and anyway believing it was right to abolish the voting rights of hereditary peers. He was often mistaken for the gardener, and was not too proud to turn himself into the car-park attendant on busy days, still going out in a hi-vis vest in his early 90s.
“One’s got to be prepared to live in a modest way,” he observed. “It’s no good thinking you’ve got to have a Bentley and a butler - that’ll break you.”
But he had no doubts about the vital importance of the hereditary principle in preserving Britain’s architectural heritage for the public benefit. In 1988, when the Environment Secretary Nicholas Ridley argued that if hereditary owners could not afford to maintain their stately piles they should sell out to those who could, he disagreed strongly, suggesting that the family link to a property was the most cost-effective way of preserving the fabric and “soul” of a place….
He was born Nathaniel Thomas Allen Twisleton-Wykeham-Fiennes on September 22 1920, the eldest son of Ivo Murray Twisleton-Wykeham-Fiennes. His mother, Hersey, was the daughter of Sir Thomas Butler, Yeoman Usher of the Black Rod. Nat was born in his grandfather’s grace-and-favour apartment in the Victoria Tower of the House of Lords, making him – perhaps uniquely – a Lord born in the Lords. In 1965, in a move characteristic of his discomfort with showiness and excess, Nat would relinquish the names Twisleton-Wykeham by deed poll….
Lord Saye inherited the title on his father’s death in 1968. In 1958 he married Mariette, the daughter of Major-General Sir (Arthur) Guy Salisbury-Jones, GCVO, CMG, CBE, MC, with whom he had a daughter and four sons, of whom the youngest is the writer William Fiennes.
Lord Saye experienced great tragedy in his personal life. In The Music Room, published in 2009, William Fiennes recalled the shadows cast over family life by the death in 1968 of his parents’ third son, Thomas, aged nearly three, and the increasingly wayward behaviour of his eldest brother, Richard.
From the age of two Richard had suffered from epilepsy; brain damage sustained during repeated seizures meant that, though often happy and delightful, he could also be aggressive and sometimes violent.
Lord and Lady Saye showed saintly patience with their son and loved him unconditionally. But one image in The Music Room gives a sense of the burden they carried. After Richard, in a fury, had driven a metal bar through two windows, William recalled chancing upon his father outside, his head down and his palm pressed against a buttress. “I asked him what he was doing,” William wrote. “He said he was asking the house for some of its strength.”
In the 1990s Richard moved to live at an epilepsy centre in Cheshire but would often stay with his parents at weekends. It was during one of these visits, in 2001, that he died during an epileptic seizure aged 41.
Lord Saye and Sele is survived by his wife, his daughter, the artist Susannah Fiennes, and two sons, of whom the elder, Martin, born in 1961, inherits the title and the castle.
Lord Saye and Sele, born September 22 1920, died January 20 2024
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From the Telegraph of 23 Jan 2024: SAYE AND SELE Nathaniel Thomas Allen Fiennes, 21st Baron Saye and Sele, on 20th January 2024, aged 103. Beloved husband of Mariette. Devoted father and grandfather. Funeral at St Mary's Church, Broughton… on Monday 12th February at 2 p.m.
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Lord Saye and Sele obituary
Self-effacing custodian of Broughton Castle and former Army officer whose forebears could be traced back to the Norman Conquest
When Nathaniel Fiennes succeeded to the ancient barony of Saye and Sele in 1968 as the 21st incumbent, he also inherited the moated Broughton Castle, set in an 1,800-acre estate, near Banbury in Oxfordshire.
Described by Sir Nikolaus Pevsner, a historian, as “the finest and most complete medieval house in the county”, the actual building, which had been in his family for about 600 years, had deteriorated badly. After his father had restored the roof in 1957, the new lord and his wife Mariette overhauled the stonework and windows, and carried out extensive redecoration. He was helped by his training as a chartered surveyor and land agent.
In the early Eighties he and his wife embarked on the main structure, with a £1 million, 12-year programme, supported by English Heritage and completed in 1994. Crumbling stonework, rotting window lead and timbers riddled with deathwatch beetles were all replaced…
… Broughton provided the backdrop to scenes in [Shakespeare in Love,] Wolf Hall and The Crown, and the discovery on the estate of one of the largest Roman villas in Britain prompted a visit by Channel 4’s Time Team in 2021.
… He was born Nathaniel Thomas Allen Twisleton-Wykeham-Fiennes in 1920 in a grace and favour apartment in the House of Lords. He discarded his triple-barrelled surname (encapsulating various family cognomens), shortening it to Fiennes by deed poll in 1965. In the same spirit as his parliamentarian forebear, the 8th Baron Saye and Sele, who railed against episcopal pomp and privilege under Charles I, he never sat in the House of Lords, and opposed voting rights for hereditary peers in the constitutional reforms of 1999.
… While skiing in Switzerland in 1958, he met Mariette Salisbury-Jones, the daughter of a major general, on the Gornergrat railway in Zermatt. They were married at St Margaret’s Church, Westminster. With her creativity and warmth, she proved a perfect partner in running and restoring Broughton in what became a new golden age in its history.
Respected in his local community, Lord Saye devoted himself to the stewardship of owning a great house. Even in later years he pitched in, often unobtrusively performing tasks such as helping in the car park, wearing a hi-vis jacket. He loved taking people around the house and took pride in the garden (designed with advice from the American landscape architect Lanning Roper), pointing out favourite roses with his walking stick…
… Family was particularly important. He and Mariette had five children, including four sons — Martin, who inherits the title, is a partner in the university-linked company Oxford Science Enterprises, while William is an author — and a daughter Susannah, Martin’s twin, an artist who has worked closely with the King. Their eldest son, Richard, had epilepsy, which led to his premature death in 2001, aged 41. Another son, Thomas, died in an accident aged two. The ups and downs of Richard’s illness are lovingly depicted in his brother William’s book The Music Room.
Lord Saye’s forebears could be traced back to the Norman Conquest. An ancestor, Geoffrey de Say, was one of 25 barons who signed the Magna Carta and was charged with its implementation. Another ancestor, James Fiennes, fought at Agincourt and befriended the young Henry VI, serving as chamberlain of his household; he was elevated to the peerage as the 1st Baron Saye and Sele in 1447, but his wealth and influence made him a target of the Kentish rebels under Jack Cade in 1450 when he was imprisoned and beheaded.
The 2nd Lord Saye and Sele married a descendant of William of Wykeham, Bishop of Winchester. As a result the family inherited a fortified manor house in Oxfordshire, for which in 1406 Sir Thomas Wykeham, William’s great nephew, had obtained a licence to “crenellate and embattle”. So emerged Broughton Castle, which Richard Fiennes, the 6th Lord Saye and Sele embellished into what is still essentially the Elizabethan mansion that stands today.
The family played a significant role in the English Civil War. The 8th baron became a leader of the Parliamentarian opposition to Charles I, alongside John Pym. In 1642 his four sons all fought against the royalists at Edgehill, the first major battle of the war, just seven miles from Broughton Castle. His second son, Nathaniel Fiennes, MP for Banbury, was notable for his calls for the abolition of the episcopacy. As an officer in the parliamentary army he led the defence of Bristol against Prince Rupert in 1643. When the city surrendered he was arrested, sentenced to death and later pardoned. Nathaniel remained close to Oliver Cromwell and attended his death bed. At the Restoration he and his father were pardoned for their parliamentary sympathies.
In the 19th century, agricultural depression diminished the family fortunes. For a while the house was rented out, but it retained its essential charm…
Lord Saye and Sele, land agent and Army officer, was born on September 22, 1920. He died on January 20, 2024, aged 103
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