Okay, so I can confirm I'm not the only psycho with crazy aspirations... Using U glass seems like a very cool idea. Watching Dalibor's videos is mesmerizing and I can't imagine the frustration and hours of trial and error he went through. But that's half the fun, right?
A diff pump or turbopump setup and I think a way to bake out the tube to get that last little stubborn fraction of molecules sticking to the inside to release. Keep looking on ebay and you can find pumps and such. I recently sent a deal to a friend I saw at $250 for a small turbopump with controller. Thought about buying it myself as a secondary, but my junk stash is already quite large. I am buying parts to build a functional system for all sorts of experiments and would love to get some glowing tubes at some point. Lasers, nixies, discharge, etc. Just learning machining processes on my 11" Sheldon lathe and South Bend vertical mill, both 1950s vintage. Logan 8" shaper is pretty antique as well.
As for mixing your own gas, like setting up an aquarium the larger the vessel and amounts of gas, the easier it will be to control the proportions and get it right or close enough. Maybe a manifold with gases going in at same pressure/flow rates, through same orifice sizes, and solenoid valves controlled by a uprocessor to get the ratio you want? Flow gauges for argon used in welding are easy to come by with a little ball that shows flow rate. These might be calibrated for specific gases.