OK you don't need to shout to be heard in this list. :)
1 - You can safely assume that "Pulse Voltage" is the one supplied by your Power Supply. It is higher than the one needed for non-multiplexed operation to guarantee a faster strike.
2 - Both modes A and B are safe from an operational standpoint and are given as indicators of how far you can go with current for the target time and duty cycle (that's how PWM translates in this case).
What it means is that for each 0.1ms a tube is on at 10mA you must wait 0.9ms before turning it on again or you will burn its life away quite quickly. The same is valid for mode B with 1ms and 5mA: you must wait 9ms before turning that tube again on. There is a turn-on delay and also a turn-off delay so not all of this wait-time is really so. As a reference you can read
this, from Mike Moorrees "Pile of poo" which is an extremely good guide to multiplexing nixie tubes and quite the opposite to his name choice :)
You need to be careful and stick to what the specifications say regarding to maximum voltage and currents, specially when multiplexing, or as I said before, you risk to burn your tubes lifetime quite quickly.