Desktop vs Lite vs mEOS. You have all the shims, monitors, apps and such running with the Desktop (even when 'sleeping'). When you shift to Lite, you lose the Graphical Desktop and a couple of hundred applications taking up space even when not used, with hooks into the OS to watch for things happening so they can do their jobs. Lite still has a bunch of things going on that, for a NVR / system like motionEye aren't needed, so why have the hooks and apps taking up space unnecessarily? mEOS can run on a 2GB SDCard (I'd want a NAS or another storage drive) where you're hard pressed to find even a Lite that run on such a small drive. (I remember Puppy Linux and a couple of others and they still had graphical desktops)
I just dropped an image on a 2 GB USB drive for my Pi3B+, added wpa_supplicant.conf and ssh, and edited the cmdline.txt changed /dev/mmcblk0p2 to /dev/sda2) and booted. Got 125 processes running vs a fairly clean RPiOS Lite on Pi4-4GB with 172.
I always try to run a bare minimum system, and only add things as I actually need to them, personally. On most of my Pis, if I run Full Desktop, the first thing I rip out is LibreOffice, as I have other machines to do the Office Suite type things. I've run Kodi, RetroPi and I run motionEyeOS because they do 1 thing, do it well, and without the need for tons of 'fluff'. To each his own...