If you look at the manual for XPA125b you will see that the ACC input for band switching actually uses voltage from 230mV to 2530mV to determine the band to switch to. This exactly what the band volts mod for the HL2 provides. The circuit you build for the end panel adds a 9 pin connector which you then adapt to the 6 pin connector on the XPA125b amp.
I have a Micro PA50 amp connected to my HL2. It uses an RF sense circuit for both PTT and band switching. You connect one coax patch cable through the amp and that is it. No other ACC cable needed to switch band or activate PTT. It's slick as snail snot. If you were to build any circuit for amp control that is what I would look at. The Aliexpress sellers will send you a schematic of the amp if you ask.
I'm doing pretty well with the extra 50 watts. I'm not sure if 100 watts would amount to enough difference to worry about. XPA125b ATU is rumored
to be quite good though if you also need a tuner.