You can see that the ptt in is feed by a pair of 10 k resistor in serie that drive the base of a PNP transistor, and that transistor drive back the relay and the 7805 regulator that set the PA bias voltage.
The PTT pin should be more than 5 volt to go in to TX and lower than 2 volt to go into RX.
The best way to do this would be the put the pin that have the voltage on the ptt connector of the amp to the ext ptt line RCA jack center pin of the Hermes lite 2 and connect the gnd of the amp connector to the RCA jack ring of the hermes lite.
THis should provide the ptt line with the right signal as when the EXTPTT center pin get sent to ground on PTT ( Usually by default) this should put the transistor in conduction and feed the bias and the relay to put the amp in TX mode.
Hope this helps
Pierre
VE2PF