Hi Paul,
You are right. The short-term flood risk comes much more from the intensity of storms and high precipitation events than from sea level rise. This has been taken into account by Climate Central in their forecast system. This gives you a flood risk map for the world in 2050 [1] and it's a lot worse than people realise. For example the "Thames Estuary 2100" initiative [2] has similar flood risks for 2100 as Climate Central has for 2050: i.e. the risks are rising 3 times faster.
However the risk of catastrophic sea level rise is very real, even though metres are unlikely this century. They are real because, even if the probability of ice sheet collapse this century may be low, the impact would be horrendous. Who would fly in a plane if there was 0.1% chance of it crashing?
Worse still, the point of no return for ice sheet collapse could be passing us at this very moment. This point is when, whatever we try to do, we cannot stop the slide towards collapse. This is why we need to pull out all stops, especially SAI, to prevent ice sheet collapse. Collapse could lead immediately to several metres of SLR and inevitably to total polar ice loss and 60 metres of SLR.
This sounds like bad news: but the silver lining is that judicious SAI plus judicious CDR together could return the planet to a safe, sustainable, biodiverse and productive state within 50 years or so.
Cheers, John
[1] Climate Central map for flood risk in 2050
[2] Thames Estuary 2100: Why we need it