I'll do some calculations when I get some free time, but in the mean time, here are a few items that might help.
1) Do a search on the group list for "slenderness". I believe there was a recent reference to the "slenderness ration" Fuller suggested for dome struts.
2) More than most people want to read here, but does contain useful insights
Kenner also discusses this in his book. P 68 refers to length/diameter as 24:1 for wood, so one can do the math and see how close or how far (under or over that ratio) you'd be with a given strut length at a given frequency.
3) Even if using plain 2x4's does not appear to provide adequate strength, there are lots of alternatives, such as doubling up, going to 2x6 or larger materials, going to a floor truss or I-beam (Daystar used to build domes from these) and various other options with wood, as well as going to other materials.
Also, don't over look the wood species. If you look at load capacity tables (of which there are many) you will be surprised how much the wood strength can vary. A few examples of many -
4) If you are going to use plate type hubs, in case its not already on your radar screen, you could consider the gain in strength for the hub if you used at least 2 plates for each hub, one on the upper strut surface and one on the lower. There is also the option of setting the hub up like a circular truss, such that a cross section of the hub would look more like an "A" rather than a "^". This could help prevent the hub from flattening which is an important failure mode, especially in high frequency domes.
Hope that helps some.
Dx G