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[rmcal...@gmail.com]

Since I recently found out I am an empath I have been trying to talk to my boyfriend about it. We always end up fighting, And I don't understand why. He says I am being negative but I am just trying to be honest. I sense that even though he says he believes me, I feel he doesn't. I feel like he just thinks I'm crazy. I just feel cursed and upset and lost. I don't really talk to my friends about it or my family because I feel they really don't get it or just think I'm crazy. What am I doing wrong? Any advice would be nice because at this point I don't think I have ever felt more alone.

[Marion Botello]

i do not talk about it much myself. Unless a person is an empath or a Highly sensitive person they don't get it. I do not want this to be a curse but a blessing. I mean come on when we feel other people pains, emotions etc... it is a lot to take in. When I finally figured out what I was I started learning how to best help myself. One of the things I do is to ground myself by walking barefoot outside as much as possible. I do not watch much t.v. too much violence for me to take in. I find peace and tranquility in the woods, the smell of the grass, sound of the leaves  rustling in the wind, any nature sounds. I avoid large crowds and angry/negative people. I pray for God to help me utilize this gift he has given me.

On Thursday, May 14, 2015 12:25 AM, "rmcal...@gmail.com" <rmcal...@gmail.com> wrote:

Since I recently found out I am an empath I have been trying to talk to my boyfriend about it. We always end up fighting, And I don't understand why. He says I am being negative but I am just trying to be honest. I sense that even though he says he believes me, I feel he doesn't. I feel like he just thinks I'm crazy. I just feel cursed and upset and lost. I don't really talk to my friends about it or my family because I feel they really don't get it or just think I'm crazy. What am I doing wrong? Any advice would be nice because at this point I don't think I have ever felt more alone.

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[rmcal...@gmail.com]

I appreciate your help, thank you. Do you often have dreams about places that you have never been before? Or people you have never seen but you seem to know them some how? When you walk barefoot what exactly does that do?

[Elaine Thompson]

Earthing or Grounding. Research it. Mother Earth has magnetic energies that we can glean from. Refreshing, energizing and soooo worth the time to NOT put on our shoes. There are also Earthing mats available. You plug them into the third prong of an outlet, the ground hole. Put your feet on the mat and enjoy a cup of herbal tea. Wonderful!

Best wishes on your journey of bettering your gift. It's difficult and most people don't understand empaths. I'm still learning, myself, on how to control what I let in. Some days I'm overwhelmed. I've since shared with my daughters and a cousin, my gift, to find they have the same abilities, and have also struggled with acceptance.

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[Gary]

There's a problem with most people where if you state your observations, they will tell you you're being negative, even when it's what comes to pass. People are frustrating in that way. You're not crazy. You are seeing what most don't see or want to see. You really need to be with someone who validates you. You will be miserable otherwise., 

On Thu, May 14, 2015 at 2:25 PM, <rmcal...@gmail.com> wrote:

Since I recently found out I am an empath I have been trying to talk to my boyfriend about it. We always end up fighting, And I don't understand why. He says I am being negative but I am just trying to be honest. I sense that even though he says he believes me, I feel he doesn't. I feel like he just thinks I'm crazy. I just feel cursed and upset and lost. I don't really talk to my friends about it or my family because I feel they really don't get it or just think I'm crazy. What am I doing wrong? Any advice would be nice because at this point I don't think I have ever felt more alone.

[rmcal...@gmail.com]

Thank you for your help Gary. I also feel that I don't fit all of the traits of empaths that I have read about or researched. A lot of sources imply that empaths are shy or that is what it seems to me. I do not think of myself as a shy person. Is there a spectrum? Like I said I have read a lot about empaths but maybe I am not reading the right sources? These may be really dumb questions. I just feel really new to all of this still.

[Gary]

No, not dumb at all.

Many empaths are shy and many are not. it just depends on their sense of self and their confidence. I used to be shy when I was younger but I'm less so now. Still, I don't cope with parties and being around 'the boys' so I clam up. I don't fit in.

While there are many traits to being an empath, you only need one to be one. To feel others feelings. 

On Tue, May 19, 2015 at 2:30 PM, <rmcal...@gmail.com> wrote:

Thank you for your help Gary. I also feel that I don't fit all of the traits of empaths that I have read about or researched. A lot of sources imply that empaths are shy or that is what it seems to me. I do not think of myself as a shy person. Is there a spectrum? Like I said I have read a lot about empaths but maybe I am not reading the right sources? These may be really dumb questions. I just feel really new to all of this still.

[barry....@gmail.com]

Gary and the rest of you who have chimed in on these posts,

 I just wanted to say what a job well done. I have only recently thought to look for other empaths online. For those of you who are true empaths, you know how lonely this existence can be. No matter how much someone close to you says they understand where you are coming from, it never is really to a degree where they can truly understand what we go thru.

although there don't seem to be many new posts, I plan on sticking around for this. I love to help others and knowing there are more makes me feel more safe. "normal" hahaha..now that's a joke heh?  Anyway, thanks for being who you all are.

Kevin

[Gary]

Thanks Kevin,

Since this group started, many new social networks have become more popular, hence why this group is quiet. 

You can find some or my newer ones at:

Empath Social - A community for Empaths and psychics alike. 

The Phoenix Archives – Deals with the darker side of the astral worlds. Not for the faint of heart.

Empath and Psychic Support - Our blog and Healing services for the Empath and Psychic.

Empath zone - The Empath Facebook resource and support site.

Empath Support and Psychic Secrets - Our YouTube Channel.

Facebook Paranormal Discussion Group  -  A place to private share your paranormal experiences. 

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[Music is My Life (Kay Bee)]

Wow!!  Great resources Gary.  Thank you so much!!!

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[gumbal...@gmail.com]

Hello Rachel. This is important. Empaths and our existence goes further than either of us first anticipated. I'm literally 12 and have almost full control over my powers. I have information if you need it. gumbal...@gmail.com the newer generation of Empaths is growing stronger but we need your support. Your boyfriend doesn't understand how you feel but you know how he feels. You have to power to control the situation all you need to do is contact me. I know you think my age makes my entire comment seem irrelevant but it doesn't. We know how you feel and are always here to support. The future is becoming the present and Empaths will soon populate the earth but we need the older generations of empaths to help us.

[Juniper]

That would be your past life talking to you.

[angela berry]

Never doubt yourself no matter what is happening you deserve support so this is and old post hope you are ok

[Peter Axelsson]

I never figured this out really.

Gary is right, but I would say you are crazy :-) Is that so bad ?

I don't have any personal contact with other empaths, althought I would like to have, and I see cooping with life is to see that there are different layers, different planes. It is like you have to wear a mask sometimes. The problem is not between you and other people, it is between you and the mask

You should get a comfortable mask.

I hate shoes with all my heart, but sometimes I have to wear them.

Peter

[angela berry]

I  walk on a earthy plane however you take the world it is not always easy For me I feel I let other people or moods effect me does it matter you need tools either way I however we me believe there is more to it

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[Peter Axelsson]

Angela,

I shouldn't write in "you" form, I should write in "I form". I'm sorry.

Naturally I'm referring to my own fear of being crazy :-)

At the same time I would miss the craziness if it disappeared.

And yes, some tools I need. I need good curtains in my windows, that I can open and close depending of how much I want to let in.

These are only things from my life.

Love

Peter

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[angela berry]

I sometimes think the word crazy gets a bad wrap there is nothing wrong  with keeping to yourself if you have interests I like my on company with covid I have been trying to reach out some have friends but only meeting cons on line sorry for being negitive

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[angela berry]

I am going to read All things Bright and Beautiful for the 2nd time if you like animals it is a good book by James Herriot

[angela berry]

So nice you asked that is fine east coast philadelphia miss LA  to be honest spent some time there maybe to lose with info but not rich or stupid nothing anyone can take from me friends me and my cats thats it Sweden most places english

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Hi Angela,

I saw that you wrote again.

I wonder if there is a time difference.

Where are you ? I'm in Sweden.

Anyway, I saved your email address, was that ok ?

Peter

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[angela berry]

Keep getting cut off do think site is secure

[angela berry]

[Gary]

You mean this group? It's a Google group, so as secure as it's going to get. 

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[angela berry]

I am not to worried about a site thats not secure I do not even believe in credit cards my computer is acting strange Plus I friended someone by mistake tears are about too start person was a pedifile glad I have good people in my life try not to worry about the other  just thought I could meet people

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