I understand your question now, thanks Robert. Let me try to clarify how we envision all of those places working together.
Some may have noticed we did not refer to Elixir Forum as "the official" Elixir Forum because we don't intend it to be one. As Elixir Slack, Elixir School and others, the Elixir Forum is one of many places created by the community and supported by the community.
That said, the official mediums are:
* #elixir-lang on IRC
* Github repository
* The elixir-lang-talk and elixir-lang-core mailing list
Language development discussions happen mostly on elixir-lang-core and naturally on GitHub once they are past the proposal stage. Interactions in the official mediums are under our Code of Conduct. Discussions also happen on #elixir-lang but they are ad-hoc.
There are also mediums managed by the community which we recommend to adopt the same or similar Code of Conduct as Elixir's, for example, Elixir Slack and Elixir Forum.
And there are other places, like Stack Overflow, which are not managed directly by the community but many members of the community are active on.
I believe that, as more community-driven initiatives show up, there will be even more places to go to follow Elixir discussions. Naturally, some members will focus on some, others will focus on others.
I certainly understand it is beyond anyone's limit. Specially in your case Robert, since everyone appreciates and would love to have your contributions. My feedback would be for you to pick your favorite places and stick to them. :)
I hope this helps?