Why do non-dual teachers point to direct seeing?
How much of reality do we actually perceive?
Very little.
Life is mystery.
Thought tries to know it.
Explain it.
Hold it.
But can thought ever know life?
Or is thought itself another appearance within life?
Perhaps direct seeing is not about seeing reality more clearly.
It is about discovering what is aware of reality.
What knows this moment?
What knows thought?
What knows joy… fear… beauty… confusion?
Many traditions pointed toward this:
Know thyself.
Not knowing more.
Knowing THAT which knows.
THAT which is always here.
Always present.
Always unique.
How do we see THIS?
If attention shifts from what is there to what is looking — what is discovered?
What I notice is not a fixed thing.
Not something solid.
More like something constantly moving, morphing, shape-shifting.
Alive.
Present before thought describes it.
Not something merely observed.
Something inseparable from observing itself.
Always here.
Always changing.
Always THIS.
And life?
Who cares if we can fully explain it?
It may be the greatest movie ever.
Nonstop.
Never repeating.
Beauty. Loss. Wonder. Love.
Talk about a thriller.
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"How much of reality do we actually perceive?
Very little."
How do we know what we cannot perceive? How do we know there is more than 'this'?
How do we define reality? Is reality what we observe right here, right now? Or is it something different? Does 'reality' require knowing?
For instance, when I am on the phone with my Mom or Dad, they are both 'real' in that moment. But when I hang up the phone, are they still real to me when I am not thinking about them? Maybe between phone calls one of them passes away - are they less real when their body dies? Surely I will no longer be able to call them, but they are accessible in memory... so, still a part of my 'reality'? Are the products of my imagination 'real', then? How about night time dreams?
I sit a few miles from the ocean - below the surface of the water there are likely fish swimming below the surface, but how 'real' are they to me? The assumption is based on previous experiences of the ocean.
There is no specific logic I am trying to convey in the above. I can sit here and talk about a galaxy light years away as being 'real' but what is the use if it is not accessible or knowable somehow? On the flipside, does the thought of some far off galaxy make it immediately real to me? In that case, I know everything about reality, because even the abstract galaxy is an idea.
Just pondering out loud....
-Rob M.
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Rani, Rob and All,
Beautiful article, Rani. And Rob, your pondering lands for me.
I wonder if this points to why we can think and discuss reality endlessly and still never quite arrive.
Thought is part of life. Memory is part of life. Imagination is part of life. They help us navigate experience.
But perhaps what I attempt here to point to cannot be reached by thought because thought itself appears afterward.
Pre-thought.
Direct experiencing.
The sound before “bird.”
The color before “sky.”
The sensation before “fear” or “joy.”
Our senses already show us only a sliver of what is happening. We know there are wavelengths we cannot see, sounds we cannot hear, processes occurring beyond perception.
Reality itself may not change.
But our experience of reality appears through conditioning, memory, language, sensory limitations, and the conceptual frameworks we inherit.
We experience reality through a tridimensional body and conditioned mind.
We infer dimensions beyond immediate perception.
Perhaps what we call the Absolute is not something hidden elsewhere, but something too Total to be captured by the apparatus attempting to know it.
How then could thought — arriving afterward and organizing experience into concepts — grasp the Totality?
We can intuit. We can wonder. We can believe.
But perhaps that is why traditions point beyond words.
“The Tao that can be spoken is not the eternal Tao.”
The moment we fully put it into words, we have already stepped into thought.
Not wrong.
Just not the Totality.
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On May 23, 2026, at 8:44 PM, Rob MacDonald <rjma...@gmail.com> wrote:
I am wondering about this portion:"How much of reality do we actually perceive?
Very little."
How do we know what we cannot perceive? How do we know there is more than 'this'?
How do we define reality? Is reality what we observe right here, right now? Or is it something different? Does 'reality' require knowing?For instance, when I am on the phone with my Mom or Dad, they are both 'real' in that moment. But when I hang up the phone, are they still real to me when I am not thinking about them? Maybe between phone calls one of them passes away - are they less real when their body dies? Surely I will no longer be able to call them, but they are accessible in memory... so, still a part of my 'reality'? Are the products of my imagination 'real', then? How about night time dreams?
I sit a few miles from the ocean - below the surface of the water there are likely fish swimming below the surface, but how 'real' are they to me? The assumption is based on previous experiences of the ocean.
There is no specific logic I am trying to convey in the above. I can sit here and talk about a galaxy light years away as being 'real' but what is the use if it is not accessible or knowable somehow? On the flipside, does the thought of some far off galaxy make it immediately real to me? In that case, I know everything about reality, because even the abstract galaxy is an idea.
Just pondering out loud....
-Rob M.
On Sat, May 23, 2026 at 7:22 PM Rani Madhavapeddi <rmadha...@gmail.com> wrote:
This is a good review of what advaita is.
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Paul, yes. Parents, conditioning, history — all tied into this showing up. I get that.
What I’m trying to point to is something a bit different. Thought can understand things about life, but sometimes it can also get in the way of seeing things directly. We call a tree “tree” and that’s useful. But maybe something else quietly slips away too.
Not that thought is separate from THIS. Thought is part of it too. I’m just wondering whether reality — or maybe direct experience — is always bigger and richer than what thought can fully capture.
Oy. 🙂
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Paul,
I didn’t take what you said as criticism at all. I enjoyed where you went with it.
I think where I get confused sometimes is around THIS and direct seeing.
If our senses shape experience and thought names it, I keep wondering what THIS is that so many traditions point toward. God. Brahman. Ein Sof. The unborn.
Maybe I should take my own advice and stop looking for an answer to what THIS is because perhaps it isn’t a thing to know or grasp.
Words seem inadequate.
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Paul,
Thank you. I think what you are pointing to is helping clarify something for me.
If attention moves away from thought about experience and into immediate experiencing, there can be a noticing of sensation directly, aliveness directly, constant movement and change, no fixed boundaries, no obvious separation, and something always present without effort.
Not thought analyzing life.
Life revealing itself before thought organizes it.
What strikes me from what you wrote is that direct seeing is not someone doing something. Not a thinker figuring itself out. Not someone accomplishing awareness.
There is simply seeing.
Recognition appearing.
And perhaps that seeing means thought is seen for what it is — a useful tool, but perhaps not how THIS is directly known.
If THIS is directly known at all, perhaps it is not known by standing apart from it, defining it, or grasping it, but by being it.
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