Hi Jochen,
Unfortunately not, however you might try forking the gem, adding a Gemfile to your project (to grab your own version of Capistrano) and modifying the git.rake/git.rb tasks to sun serially, or at least in rolling groups.
You could achieve this by (roughly speaking) the following:
$ gem install bundler
$ cd ./my/project/path
$ bundle init
(this will create a Gemfile)
Add the line:
gem "capistrano", github: 'jochen/capistrano'
and, then run:
$ bundle
$ bundle exec cap production deploy
You are now working on your own Capistrano version.
You can also clone your own Capistrano fork to your machine, and tweak it, without having to commit, and push back to Github, with something like:
gem "capistrano", path: '../capistrano'
If you are successful, maybe we could change the main Gem to prefer groups of 5/10 servers in a rolling configuration as the default, since this is larger than *most* people's starting setups.
Alternatively, you can look at
http://blog.jayfields.com/2008/02/rake-task-overwriting.html which you might use (in your deploy.rb, or Capfile) to temporarily monkey patch your own installation, however I'd prefer the "own gem" solution if I were you, as it leads naturally to a bit more control over your environment, and the chances that we change something, and nerf your monkey patch are mitigated.